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Permalink Reply by Cheri Kent on October 31, 2009 at 10:22am

My husband/soulmate passed away August 31st, 2009. I had him cremated and had some of his ashes put into a heart I wear on a 30 inch chain. I can be sitting perfectly still and the chain feels like someone picks it off my chest and lets it fall against me. I have had this happen many many times since his death and I believe it is my husband letting me know he is around me and watching over me.

I have always believed that there is like another dimension our souls go to when we die. I have gotten other signs from people I loved that make me believe this to be true.

I hope I continue to have my necklace move for a very long time. It makes me feel safe and very much loved knowing that my husband is still here with me in spirit.

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Permalink Reply by (white dove) on October 31, 2009 at 10:52am

Cheri, Thank u for this wonderful idea! However, i have fought back and forth on this because of my mom's wishes. Being: to be tossed in the wind and let free to fly, i have taken a ton of road trips already to very special places close to my moms heart... I did however ask her if it is alright if i keep "some" for when i move to my forever home. She seemed alright with this idea.. so the little bit may be in a heart for safe holding until then! Thank u!

Cheri Kent said:

My husband/soulmate passed away August 31st, 2009. I had him cremated and had some of his ashes put into a heart I wear on a 30 inch chain. I can be sitting perfectly still and the chain feels like someone picks it off my chest and lets it fall against me. I have had this happen many many times since his death and I believe it is my husband letting me know he is around me and watching over me.

I have always believed that there is like another dimension our souls go to when we die. I have gotten other signs from people I loved that make me believe this to be true.

I hope I continue to have my necklace move for a very long time. It makes me feel safe and very much loved knowing that my husband is still here with me in spirit.

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Permalink Reply by (white dove) on November 1, 2009 at 9:57am

Thank you to all who said prayers for our dear friend. He made his departure from his pain this morning at 5 am. An approprite date for him for he was truely a walking saint. He was and is a friend "forever more".

(white dove) said:

Cheri, Thank u for this wonderful idea! However, i have fought back and forth on this because of my mom's wishes. Being: to be tossed in the wind and let free to fly, i have taken a ton of road trips already to very special places close to my moms heart... I did however ask her if it is alright if i keep "some" for when i move to my forever home. She seemed alright with this idea.. so the little bit may be in a heart for safe holding until then! Thank u!

Cheri Kent said:

My husband/soulmate passed away August 31st, 2009. I had him cremated and had some of his ashes put into a heart I wear on a 30 inch chain. I can be sitting perfectly still and the chain feels like someone picks it off my chest and lets it fall against me. I have had this happen many many times since his death and I believe it is my husband letting me know he is around me and watching over me.

I have always believed that there is like another dimension our souls go to when we die. I have gotten other signs from people I loved that make me believe this to be true.

I hope I continue to have my necklace move for a very long time. It makes me feel safe and very much loved knowing that my husband is still here with me in spirit.

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Permalink Reply by Christy Ante on November 1, 2009 at 10:06pm

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

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Permalink Reply by JOYCE MASHER on November 1, 2009 at 10:28pm

Hi Christy,
I too am waiting for that day or dream state, or whatever it is. My motherin law has had visits and a few friends have told me stories too. It has been a year in sept since we lost our 21yr old girl, and I talk to her all the time. We have even yelled at her. We hope she is listening or something. I am re-reading a book called, We Don't Die by George Anderson. It talks about mediums and people like sylvia brown and john edwards. Death is a transition to another side, etc. I still havent accepted any of all that has happened and some days I too dont want to go on. I have had dreams with her in at all ages of her life and some I remember to tell later, and some I cant. Every min of every day something reminds me of her and her time with us and this site helps also keep her in our memories. Read as much as you can and hopefully others here will give you more info on things to do. I hope you find a way now or later on to hear from him. Someone told me, they dont come to those who are upset or crying, etc. I dont know how to stop crying yet. I dont work, and if I did, I dont know how I would handle keeping on the mask that others talk about.
We have had butterflies, dragonflies and the wind that we think are signs when we visit the grave. I am going to post some other odd things that have happened over the last year that we hope were signs from her. But they do say, they are around us all the time. I pray for you to get through as best you can til that day comes.
huggggsss
joyce and "Angel Amy" 5/15/87--9/18/08

what is your sons name? I am so sorry to hear how young he was. my father in law had lymphoma and died within 6mnths of his diagnosis in 1992. we still miss him too and know he is with his only granddaughter watching down on us.

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

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Permalink Reply by amaryllis on November 1, 2009 at 10:45pm

Hi Christy, I am sorry, I am making a prayer for you at this moment. Let us all be in touch because it helps.
Love and Blessings.

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Permalink Reply by Terrie on November 2, 2009 at 12:32am

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

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Permalink Reply by Terrie on November 2, 2009 at 12:33am

Terrie said:

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

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Permalink Reply by Terrie on November 2, 2009 at 1:30am

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

My Dear Friend, this may seem crazy to those of you that haven't had the connection happen with my loss. I found that I was trying to hard. To make It happen, finely one day the light came on. My whole approach was all wrong! If you really want this connection to work for you, please take my advice in what I am going to tell you. First you need to let him go. Your son cannot make the connection with you because he can't. He is in between crossing over. you need to except this. I do not mean to sound so harsh, but you see he is not letting go of you untill you can except the loss. Once you let go GOD will do the rest. It is always my philosophy and I would like it for you too...That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. Again, I feel your pain, your suffering. You need to take care of yourself. Once your son knows your ok with it he will come to you. It happen with the loss of my father. (VERY INPORTANT MESSAGE). You need to come to terms with yourself. Don't be selfish, let your son move on to his jurney. He need's this approveal from you! If you want to make this connection with him. You need to pray to GOD first ask him for his permission, also ask for your son's. I will be waiting to hear from you. Remrmber not to try so hard ok! (KEY WORDS) Ask permission from God first...God Bless, Your in my prayers. Your letter stood out of all the other letters because the same thing happened to me. Take care Terrie

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Permalink Reply by Terrie on November 2, 2009 at 1:52am

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

My Dear Friend, this may seem crazy to those of you that haven't had the connection happen with my loss. I found that I was trying to hard. To make It happen, finely one day the light came on. My whole approach was all wrong! If you really want this connection to work for you, please take my advice in what I am going to tell you. First you need to let him go. Your son cannot make the connection with you because he can't. He is in between crossing over. you need to except this. I do not mean to sound so harsh, but you see he is not letting go of you untill you can except the loss. Once you let go GOD will do the rest. It is always my philosophy and I would like it for you too...That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. Again, I feel your pain, your suffering. You need to take care of yourself. Once your son knows your ok with it he will come to you. It happen with the loss of my father. (VERY INPORTANT MESSAGE). You need to come to terms with yourself. Don't be selfish, let your son move on to his jurney. He need's this approveal from you! If you want to make this connection with him. You need to pray to GOD first ask him for his permission, also ask for your son's. I will be waiting to hear from you. Remrmber not to try so hard ok! (KEY WORDS) Ask permission from God first...God Bless, Your in my prayers. Your letter stood out of all the other letters because the same thing happened to me. Take care Terrie

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Permalink Reply by amaryllis on November 2, 2009 at 12:11pm

Terri, dear Terri, months ago when I lost my son I was told we must let go, we have to trust God, we must let Him do the hard lifting, and to move on with Faith. After and only after doing so we receive the Grace and we cope with the loss of a dear one in a different and much better way.
Yes, the pain keeps being there in our heart but we are able to relase, to let go. It does not take too long to feel calmness instead of frustration. Being in the spiritual dimension they get our good vibrations and when time comes we may get a message, or some sign from them. These processes of trusting and calming down depend on us. As we replace our desperation for something positive instead not only we start feeling better but it is also a good thing to send to our loved ones. This I am telling you I took to the test.
Terri dear, I am making a prayer for you. A hug, blessings and peace

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Terrie said:

Christy Ante said:

I have been reading through the posts and they really help to make me feel better. I have been so dissapointed for the last 4 months as I have not had that "vision" that everyone talks about having where they see their loved one in a dream.....I just feel very frustrated that I cannot seem to find symbols to know he is there. I have been reading books like crazy etc and just want to know darn it. What I would like to know is what is the proper way to "talk to the other side" in particular how do I talk to my 8 year old son ? I have read you need to burn a white candle etc ....but wondered what other people might say. Also how do you know its the person you want to talk to and not someone else ?? I am just a desperate mother missing my son, he was so close to me and to have him gone is just awful. Any tips or info will be appreciated.

My Dear Friend, this may seem crazy to those of you that haven't had the connection happen with my loss. I found that I was trying to hard. To make It happen, finely one day the light came on. My whole approach was all wrong! If you really want this connection to work for you, please take my advice in what I am going to tell you. First you need to let him go. Your son cannot make the connection with you because he can't. He is in between crossing over. you need to except this. I do not mean to sound so harsh, but you see he is not letting go of you untill you can except the loss. Once you let go GOD will do the rest. It is always my philosophy and I would like it for you too...That as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. Again, I feel your pain, your suffering. You need to take care of yourself. Once your son knows your ok with it he will come to you. It happen with the loss of my father. (VERY INPORTANT MESSAGE). You need to come to terms with yourself. Don't be selfish, let your son move on to his jurney. He need's this approveal from you! If you want to make this connection with him. You need to pray to GOD first ask him for his permission, also ask for your son's. I will be waiting to hear from you. Remrmber not to try so hard ok! (KEY WORDS) Ask permission from God first...God Bless, Your in my prayers. Your letter stood out of all the other letters because the same thing happened to me. Take care Terrie

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Permalink Reply by Tori on November 3, 2009 at 12:04pm

I have been told that I am holding onto too much anger to receive the messages that I want so desperately to receive from my Wanda. Not only was she my aunt, but also my spiritual advisor. I feel so lost, I feel so angry that she was taken from me.......The looong nights before she made her transition, I was so angry and completely bedridden. I kept asking God how he could take "MY Auntie, MY Best Friend"....

And in that still voice that we always hear about, HE said, "She's mine, My Child! "She is MY child"!

I couldnt say anything except "I Know"........!!!

I know it isnt correct to be angry at God, but I must be!!!

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