I have noted a theme in the short time I have found this website.  Most of us don't have many people with whom to talk and when we do, they do not understand our loss.

I propose that we go beyond this website, just to post our grief. (Do not take this wrong.  This is a wonderful site.  It has given me so much).

I propose that we try to get together.  Visit each other.  Call each other.  Because WE are the ones who really understand.

I have some gay and lesbian friends. but they have no idea what we have and are still going through.

I know that there are many more of us out there who do not know where to turn.  So I am proposing this as a way to honor our wives and husbands.

I welcome anyone to El Paso if they would like to come.  You may add me and I will give you my personal email.