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Comment by RJ on September 15, 2012 at 6:31pm

Kim Hopkins: 

You couldn't have said it better. Our Dads must have been very alike, and I feel mine had a similar impact on my life. I'm so grateful to have had a Dad like him, and I'm glad I told him so. He died just this past Sunday, and I know I have a long road to go without him. But like you, the man he was led me to the man I will marry in October. What a legacy our fathers can leave us daughters. 

Thank you for your post, it's precious: 

Today marks the one-year anniversary for the day I lost my dad. He had so many outstanding qualities that I don't have enough time to name them all, but the ones that stand out the most is his smile, his laughter, his wit, his kind heart, and the way he helped others. If you mentioned that you needed something, he would go out of his way to find it. But most of all, I'll miss our relationship, the way he made me feel – always like a princess. It is because of him, that I was able to witness a good man, husband, and father. From the way he treated my mom, to his hard work ethic and the way that he loved me--all of this help me to choose my wonderful husband, because I had my dad as a great example. Loving you, and missing you dearly… Always Your little girl.

Comment by Kim Hopkins on August 28, 2012 at 4:44pm

Today marks the one-year anniversary for the day I lost my dad. He had so many outstanding qualities that I don't have enough time to name them all, but the ones that stand out the most is his smile, his laughter, his wit, his kind heart, and the way he helped others. If you mentioned that you needed something, he would go out of his way to find it. But most of all, I'll miss our relationship, the way he made me feel – always like a princess. It is because of him, that I was able to witness a good man, husband, and father. From the way he treated my mom, to his hard work ethic and the way that he loved me--all of this help me to choose my wonderful husband, because I had my dad as a great example. Loving you, and missing you dearly… Always Your little girl.

Comment by Natasha on August 25, 2012 at 6:10pm

Almost 4 weeks ago, I said my last few words to my mom before I lost her. She was sitting in her favorite chair rubbing her chest and watching the olympics. I asked if she was okay and she replied it was only indigestion. I told her I was going to take a nap and I'd see her in an hour and that I loved her. An hour later, I found her laying on the couch and gone. She'd had a massive heart attack and went in her sleep. I am greatful for that. But of course I have moments of "what if", even though it's too late for that.

I'm the "baby" sister at almost 32 and have lived with mom my entire life, while my sisters are much older in their late 40's and early 50's. For them, they lost mom. For me, I lost my mom, my best friend, my confidant and my companion.

She was always so active, hell she was ironing minutes before I took my nap. Totally unexpected and I miss her dearly.

Comment by dana grable on August 1, 2012 at 9:30am

I lost my mom July 17, 2012 to a heart attack. She called 911 and still had the phone to her ear when they arrived, but she was already gone. She was at home alone. I tried calling her at my last break but didn't get an answer. The paramedic called me back from her phone and told me they had just left carrying her to the hospital. He said they found her non responsive but that didn't register that she was gone. The hospital staff had to tell me.  I can't get the picture out of my head. Her at home sitting in her chair calling for help but no one getting to her in time. Its hard. I have to make myself get up each day and come to work. I have three daughters 22, 21 and 18. They are taking it extremely hard too. I keep saying to myself be stong for them. It is so very hard. . She was my mom and my best friend. She was always there to help with my girls and now it is just me. I am so lost without her. I pray for strength each day.

Comment by Kim on April 9, 2012 at 12:58pm

My profile picture is on my wedding day 11-7-09 with my wonderful father Larry. He was taken from me almost exactly 2 years later on 11-16-11. He passed away at his home, at his favorite spot on the couch from a sudden massive heart attack. My mom was lying down in the other room, and when she came out he was already gone. He died alone. No one got to be with him or tell them how much they loved him or hold his hand. She called me at work and I remember dropping the phone and I was on the floor. I drove as fast as I could but when I got there the paramedics had already stopped working on him. I ran into the house and my knees buckled again as I saw a blanket covering his body except for his feet. I maybe 37 years old, but I felt like a little girl who just wanted her daddy back. I ran an laid beside him and held his hand and told him how much I loved him and how sorry I was I wasn't there for him when he needed me the most. He was the strongest man, the best man I've ever known, he wasn't proud, he was a quiet, steady strong, always there, always loving. He would do anything for anyone. He meant the world to me. I would give anything to have another day with him. I feel such guilt for not spending more time with him. We hardly ever fought. There were no bad feelings, I just needed to spend more time with him and do more for him. I hurt everyday and I just cannot seem to get beyond it. I have a daughter and 2 step-daughters and a wonderful husband. I still have my mother. I have a lot to be thankful for yet, my heart is so full of hurt and grief that it seems to boil over and I feel as if I have nothing left to offer anyone. So much of me died with him.

Comment by Kim Hopkins on October 2, 2011 at 7:05pm

Thanks Jeanne, I appreciate the kinds words. I almost feel like I'm going backwards in my grief.....it still hurts sooooo bad. I think when it first happened I was still in shock and able to dive back into my school work (I'm a 2nd year grad student) but now since everything is slowing down, I find myself breaking down all the time. I just can't believe he's gone...my heart is shattered.

Comment by Kim Hopkins on September 17, 2011 at 12:56am

Lost my dad on August 28, 2011. He was working on the generator because the hurricane had knocked out the power, he needed a part for it, so he left to go to the store to get it, and never made it back home. He had a heart attack while driving, he had enough sense to pull over...I wish I was there to try to save him. I miss him so much. He was my world.

Comment by Jennifer on July 13, 2011 at 4:04pm

Hello, I too lost my father in Oct. 2010 due to a sudden myocardial infarction. It was sudden and I never got to say goodbye, I love you. It hurts like nothing else will ever hurt. I was hoping to talk with people in this group since you know the pain and loss I am experiencing.

Comment by Carnetta on June 27, 2011 at 2:24am

Hi, I lost my mom May 20, 2011 to a massive heart attack. I was on the phone with her when she passed. I didnt know anything had happened. We just had her memorial service June 25, 2011. I feel so lost. She was not just my mom, she was my best friend and confidant. I had no support system and feel like I am falling apart at the seams.

Comment by Cheyanne Eubanks on October 7, 2010 at 5:00am

I can sympathize with you my mother passed away last November, from a heart attack. I think this group would help others as well as yourself. So sorry for your loss.

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