I have no idea if Im grieving or just living life. I have been trying the out of sight out of mind, and its not working. on dec. 4, 09 my ten month old neice Skylie suddenly passed away in my house. Next Saturday is her 1 yr birthday that she will never see..I cant help but just not want to think about it. I have been getting very angry lately and I hear thats normal but I dont know if it is.