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Spouses who were widowed at a young age.
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Started by Noel Nelson. Last reply by janeo yesterday.
Started by MICHELLE STUART. Last reply by Jackie Biggs May 13, 2012.
Started by Bethany King. Last reply by Bethany King May 2, 2012.
I am 31, my fiance was 41, he passed on March 18th in my arms after live, kidney and respitory failure. He lasted a week in the hospital and am thankful and blessed that we had a couple of days together while he was in there with his mind lucid enough to know I was there, but I feel like I'm dying. Today my mom told me to "cheer up" over the phone......I became enraged and cried all at the same time.......I am a hot crazy mess everyday and talk to him, I've kissed his picture for pete's sake. I don't know where to go in life from here, doesn't really matter to me anymore. I am sorry that there is a group like this with so many of us in it, but glad to know that none of you will think I'm insane, or tell me to "cheer up"!
Hi everyone I lost my husband 6 month ago 6 months before are 1 wedding annv. and 4 months before his 30th birthday. we were together since we were 9 so 21 years. im so lost without him.
I also got a tattoo after my fiance passed. I think it is a very nice way to honor him.
my husband, 38 recently passed away from a heart attack; we just returned from a wonderful family vacation. We were gone for three weeks; during the Holiday Season. Returned Jan 4 and he passed not even 12 hours later. we have four children...I'm having a tough time wondering if I'm doing this right! I plan on getting a tattoo of his name on my ankle with a lei around my ankle....like an "Anklet" .
noel- im not sure what to say a couple people in the other groups are or did get tattoos to remember them im going to when i get the money i already have his name on my hip now i want to finish it. i also made a wall of pictures with my husband in them and of our family. im not really sure how to get closure as we are still young but i hear with time it will get easier to get through the day without them physically there. not sure your beliefs but i know my husband will never leave my side and help me with all these important decisions i will have to make in the future. you will never forget him and hes watching over you and keeping you safe. i keep myself busy with my son and work and one friend that has been there for me since he died, and throughout my relationship with him. i really would not be anywhere if it wasnt for this website either. take one day at a time get through one day or even go by hours you dont need to rush getting over this greif has no time frame. and dont let anyone tell you different you take as long as you need.
Im wondering what kinds of things everyone has done to get closure from something as awful as this. Im so down and lonely because i feel like noone understands this type of loss unless they've been there. I don't know how to say goodbye.
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