By Florence Isaacs

Q. A relative’s husband, a retired officer in the Armed Forces,
just died and will be buried in Arlington National Cemetery. I was
surprised. I thought only Medal of Honor winners and other heroes
are buried in Arlington. What are the eligibility
requirements?
A. There are actually 130 national cemeteries in the United States
where free burial benefits include a gravesite, opening and closing
of the grave, perpetual care, Government headstone or marker, vault
or liner, burial flag, and engraved Presidential Memorial
Certificate. Eligible veterans, and service members who die on
active duty (or on active or inactive duty for training), can be
buried in these cemeteries. In addition, the spouse and dependents
are entitled to a plot, burial and grave marker without charge.
These cemeteries are maintained by the United States Department of
Veterans Affairs
www.cem.va.gov.
Arlington National Cemetery and the cemetery at the Soldiers’ and
Airmen’s Home in Washington, D.C. are maintained by the Department
of the Army. Arlington was officially designated during the Civil
War as the first national cemetery, although the graves of soldiers
from as far back as the Revolutionary War are here, too.
Active duty members of the Armed Forces, veterans retired from
active military service, and a long list of others (including
winners of the Medal of Honor, the Silver Star, Purple Heart, and
other medals) can be buried here. The graves of two Presidents of
the United States—John Fitzgerald Kennedy and William Howard
Taft—are here, as well as several Chief Justices of the Supreme
Court and Associate Justices. Astronauts, journalists (including
one TV anchor man), and others rest at Arlington, too.
About 27 funerals a day take place at Arlington National Cemetery,
Monday through Friday except for holidays. A chapel service can be
requested. For further information, see the Arlington website at
www.arlingtoncemetery.org
There are also state veterans cemeteries in many states. A list of
them plus contact information is available at the Department of
Veterans Affairs website
www.cem.va.gov.
If the service member or veteran is buried in a private cemetery
(near the deceased’s home, for example) the family is entitled to
the Government headstone or marker, burial flag, and Presidential
Certificate. There may be a burial allowance in certain cases.
You can call your regional Veterans office at 1-800-827-1000 and/or
numbers available at the websites mentioned above for more detailed
eligibility requirements and other information on burials.
Do you have a question you’d like Florence to answer?
E-mail her at fisaacs@florenceisaacs.com.
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Florence
Isaacs is the author of
My Deepest Sympathies: Meaningful Sentiments for Condolence Notes
and Conversations, Plus a Guide to Eulogies
.
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