By Elizabeth Harper Neeld, Ph.D. A partner reports: Probably the hardest thing for me to tolerate after Leslie died was the lethargy. I lost all ambition. Up until that time I had been gung-ho about everything. I had a game plan that excited me. I worked out regularly at the gym. I had high goals in life and total confidence that I would reach them. But with Leslie gone, I just didn’t care abo…