"Elaine -
We went to Niagara on the Lake last summer. Had a wonderful time. Where are you at in Canada? I am way down in South Georgia."
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Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Thanks to all of you for the kind and encouraging words. I hate that we have to go through all of this. Cancer sucks....death of our loved ones suck. No other way to put it!
I am at the point where I feel abandoned. My friends and family do not…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Good morning, all. This is Abby from Georgia. I have not been able to post much but do read all of the messages daily. You all are truly an inspiration. I am at the five month and one week mark, and having an even worse time than ever. I am reading…"
Abby boerner replied to Maria M's discussion Will the pain ever ease? in the group Bereaved Spouses"Maria -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My husband died from cancer on April 20, 2012. I am also taking it one day at the time. My pain has not eased. People keep saying it will. One day....
Hang in there.
Abby"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Wow, Faith. That is amazing! I am planning on moving to North Georgia next year. We had started on our retirement mountain home in my hometown when Karl died so I am continuing it. I was worried about moving, but you did it! Sounds like you and I…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Wow, Faith. That is amazing! I am planning on moving to North Georgia next year. We had started on our retirement mountain home in my hometown when Karl died so I am continuing it. I was worried about moving, but you did it! Sounds like you and I…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Good morning. This is Abby again. I am a licensed counselor and have been one for years. Karl's death and battle with cancer has led me to want to go into spiritual counseling or even maybe the ministry. I have felt God speaking to me several…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Thanks for all of the comments. You are all amazing! It truly is a roller coaster ride, isn't it? I know Karl is in Heaven, no doubt about it. One day I hope to join him. Hope you all have a peaceful night."
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"I have faith, too, but find it very hard to feel the peace that people keep telling me I will feel. I am so alone and without. And right now, it seems that it is hard to look ahead and think it will get better. I bet I have bought 15 books on…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Lori, thanks for sharing that. It sounds similar to our situation when Karl passed away. I have some good moments and am hanging on to the hope that good days are coming. I wish you the best...please hang in there and I will too.
Abby"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"I hope that I get more dreams and visits from Karl. I really loved having that dream. I hope the week goes well for you with the two year anniversary coming up. I am glad you have a granddaughter. Love her name! Karl and I have four children - three…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"I am trying everything I know of. I had my first dream of him last night sitting up in the bed at hospice. I got to kiss him, and then he said that he was tired of hurting and he wanted to go home. I said okay, let's go and he pointed up to the…"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Can anyone tell me if the pain gets better ever? I has been four months and 1week since my husband died from cancer. I thought this was supposed to get better....not worse!!"
Abby boerner commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses"Wow. What great stories. I have not had a visit from Karl since the funeral. I played the piano during communion. He was catholic and I am baptist so we had a combination funeral. Anyway, I played two classical pieces of music he loved and I had…"
janice shannon left a comment for Abby boerner"Abbey because you miss your husband and want him back so furiously wanting a sign from him would be comforting but you also mention that you are trying to have faith. Lean on your faith, what does the Bible tell us... Absent from the body…"
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its been 16 weeks
Posted on August 7, 2012 at 12:57pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
hi. It has been 16 weeks since my husband died of cancer. He died in hospice after nine days. We dealt with melanoma for two and a half years. My questions are these:
does this journey REALLY get better?????
why dont I feel more relieved like some people do when their spouse dies in hospice? or suffering from cancer? I do feel a little relieved but more griefstricken. How can I feel more relieved??
Any answers? Please help me if you can. I need…
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Posted on August 7, 2012 at 12:57pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
hi. It has been 16 weeks since my husband died of cancer. He died in hospice after nine days. We dealt with melanoma for two and a half years. My questions are these:
does this journey REALLY get better?????
why dont I feel more relieved like some people do when their spouse dies in hospice? or suffering from cancer? I do feel a little relieved but more griefstricken. How can I feel more relieved??
Any answers? Please help me if you can. I need…
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- At 9:15am on July 31, 2012, janice shannon said…
Abbey because you miss your husband and want him back so furiously wanting a sign from him would be comforting but you also mention that you are trying to have faith. Lean on your faith, what does the Bible tell us... Absent from the body present with the Lord. Our husbands that have been believers in Jesus Christ are in heaven. We don't need any other proof than that the Bible has told us so. Carol was right in that it doesn't matter what others say the world has its way of believing and Christians have there way of believing. The Bible is our guild. Through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ we pray that we be not decieved. May the Lord bless you and give you his peace. Janice
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