"I lost my husband John 3 yrs ago June 15th of this yr.
I wear my wedding rings as I still feel the bond of marriage and my love for him hasn't changed.
I'm 67 and not concerned about 'meeting another man in my life'. I believe…"
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Jeanette Kilpatrick replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"I will always feel married too. I wear my rings and do not take them off. After almost 62 years, I can't imagine anyone taking my husband's place. He has been gone almost 2 years now and I miss him more than before. …"
Marlena left a comment for Alanna Bellflower"Alanna,
Hi, I was just checking in to see how you are doing. I hope you are managing okay.
How is your daughter? I hope she is beginning to let you in. She could really use your stength right now, I'm sure.
Sending good thoughts for peace and…"
Sheila Johnson replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"Yours, especially yours, and sooooooo many posts are like my very own situation. I'm still married, too. I still feel married, too. I still wear my wedding ring and most likely always will. My married friends have pretty…"
Sheila Johnson replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"Yours, especially yours, and sooooooo many posts are like my very own situation. I'm still married, too. I still feel married, too. I still wear my wedding ring and most likely always will. My married friends have pretty…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Marlena"Unfortuneatly; in my daughters sudden loss she is lashing out at a few people. Possibly those she may have shared some of the not so good times in her marriage with.
None of those times matter now.But I can't tell her this. I…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Marlena"Unfortuneatly; in my daughters sudden loss she is lashing out at a few people. Possibly those she may have shared some of the not so good times in her marriage with.
None of those times matter now.But I can't tell her this. I…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Linda G." Linda thank you for the friendship request. As well as the background of your losses. We are in this together with the support of this site. If I am absent please know it is due to me returning to NJ where my son in law died leaveing my…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Linda G." Linda thank you for the friendship request. As well as the background of your losses. We are in this together with the support of this site. If I am absent please know it is due to me returning to NJ where my son in law died leaveing my…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Linda G."Linda I want to comment on the difference I noted between loosing my Mother, and 7 yrs later loosing my spouse. Mom was deep in alzheimers with other old age realted issues. She'd lived a good life and was in her 80's.There was to be no…"
Alanna Bellflower left a comment for Linda G."Linda I want to comment on the difference I noted between loosing my Mother, and 7 yrs later loosing my spouse. Mom was deep in alzheimers with other old age realted issues. She'd lived a good life and was in her 80's.There was to be no…"
Alanna Bellflower replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"3-26-11 was not that long ago. Your pain is fresh and raw. I remember those days. One day at a time was a burden to go through. I felt so isolated from others. Young couples didn't trigger additional saddness,but those 'our' age…"
Joan replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"I was also told the same thing by a veterans administrator. I was in his office turning in papers to have a bronze plaque for his headstone. I have looked up all the proof that I need that Jim was in Vietnam. Jim also died of coronary…"
linda wilkie replied to Alanna Bellflower's discussion I need some friends that have been through this. in the group Bereaved Spouses"you said everything i went through in your first paragraph. only my husband was not in the military, that was another life with my first husband, but the love of my life passed 3-26-11,we had all the arragements made of what we both wanted, we…"
Alanna Bellflower replied to Valerie Gernaga's discussion Lost my husband in the group Bereaved Spouses"Yes hearing words of the love our departed have had (and still have) for us is such a comfort and maybe a lesson that we should be generous in telling others we love them now while we still have them close
Alanna."
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- At 11:27pm on May 25, 2011, Marlena said…
Alanna,
Hi, I was just checking in to see how you are doing. I hope you are managing okay.
How is your daughter? I hope she is beginning to let you in. She could really use your stength right now, I'm sure.
Sending good thoughts for peace and comfort to you and your family.
Take care.
- At 10:28pm on May 5, 2011, Marlena said…
Alanna,
I am so sorry to hear of another loss for your family. Hang on tight to your daughter and grandchildren. Prayers and comfort for all of your family as you try to make sense of such an enormous tragedy.
Prayers and hugs.
- At 4:47pm on April 28, 2011,
Jerry said… - Sorry to here about your son inlaw. I pray that God give you the strength to help out your family,my prayers ar with you and them.
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