"Let that Dr. (heaven forbid) lose a child and then he will know. I am days away from the 3 year anniversary of my son's death. I am a mess, but my family tells me I am better than last year. Nobody should tell anybody else how to grieve. This…"

"cindy, welcome to this site,  you will find everyone here is most loving, kind and helpful.  i am grateful to have this site.  hugs,   valerie"

"Hi Cindy, I was going through older comments and came to yours, I wasnt able to post at the time we were talking, I dont know if I ever answered your questions on if I had other children, I have a 28 year old daughter that was living with her…"

"Hi Tami, This just gives me chills. I know our babies are around us. We have to believe. I read the post about your book idea and I thought it was a great idea. I was thinking of a book that really puts in words what it is we go thru after losing…"

"Oh the story of what your granddaughter said gives me chills. I have read that the spirits come to young children. My grandson who was able to know his uncle Mike is always saying things and now his brother who is almost 3 will say Uncle Mike is…"

"Wendy, I am so very sorry for your losses. My heart breaks for you. I lost my first baby at birth and it took me years to get past it. I wasn't "allowed to grief" and it made it so much worse. Now I am dealing with the loss of my son…"

"You are not feeling sorry for yourself, when you lost your son you lost a piece of yourself. I wanted to recommend a book I got right after Michael died. It is called Healing After Loss by Martha Whitmore Hickman. It is the best little book for only…"

"You are not feeling sorry for yourself, when you lost your son you lost a piece of yourself. I wanted to recommend a book I got right after Michael died. It is called Healing After Loss by Martha Whitmore Hickman. It is the best little book for only…"

"Dear Jay, I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I am entering year 3 since I lost my son Michael on Aug 2, 2008. Everything you are feeling is so normal. I was just numb in the first year. Year 2 was a year of acceptance that he was gone. A very…"

"Dear Pat, I am so sorry for the many losses you have had in your life. I lost my only son on August 2, 2008 and have been trying to move thru this journey of grief since. I understand that feeling of fear, I too had that very strong feeling of…"