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At 11:38pm on November 17th, 2009, PAM BRYAN said…: dear cindy sadler all i have to say about good old dad and girlfriend what goes around comes around. your son my heart breaks for you and him but he has no more pain, but i bet dad has even more things going through his mind than ours. your son looked happy and loved his mom keep that in your heart, i got a charm at james avery that says your always in my heart i put it on a chain and i rub it alot its so true they will always be in our heart. hang in there,think of you often. justins mom pam

At 6:15pm on November 16th, 2009, jeremys mom said…: Hi Cindy, thanks for your comment. I'm so sorry for the loss of your son, he's a very handsome young man. I read your story and cried. Things like this should not happen. I don't understand how his father can live with himself after what happened. My son's father was never there for them either even though I always tried to stay friendly and keep things good between us. Now after Jeremy's accident and the way he acted at the funeral, we don't talk and my youngest son won't have anything to do with him. I've tried to get him to talk to him because I don't want him having regrets if something were to happen to his dad but he refuses and says he just realized at the funeral that his dad never cared for him and his brother, everything was all about him. And he says he has a good dad (his stepdad). I really hope you can find the answers you need to help you.

People keep telling me it'll get easier. It doesn't. To me it gets harder. Even after a year and 5 months. You just miss them more as time goes by. The realization hits you that you can't see them or talk to them over and over. Some days when I'm really busy and I think I'm doing ok and then I'll glance over at his picture and it hits me like a ton of bricks that he's gone FOREVER. And like you said here comes the holidays and everyone expects you to be cheerful and joyous, it's just so hard.

At 2:41am on November 15th, 2009, Tami said…: Cindy, I just read your post of getting the reports back, You are like me, I have to know every detail! I even happened to recieve the accident pictures on my sons birthday Nov. 2, the accident happened on June 22, It was shock to say the least, but I had to look, I cried, i was in shock but it has made me stronger, I am persuing things with the California Highway Patrol, they really messed up on the investigation, now I am going to fight for my Son. I look at your Danny and I feel your pain, so handsome and so loved, so much life to look forward to, just like all of our Children, I hold you and Danny in my heart my friend. Love to you.

At 12:58am on November 14th, 2009, Brenda said…: I was reading some of the stories on here and ran across the one of your Danny. I sat and cried for you and him. He was such a handsome young man. I do know the pain as we all do thats here. I pray to God every day to give me the strength to make to another day.
My beautiful daughter Bronda drowned in the Tn river cause the road wasn't marked that it ended in the river. They have signs up now warning other people of this but what makes me so upset is the fact that if those signs had been there in the first place my daughter still might be with us. But I do know her death will save others from going threw the same pain and grief we are facing.
I dread the holidays coming up as my b-day is the 4th of Dec. hers was the 17th and then here comes Christmas. This will be the first of many more to come for us.
I read the book called The Shack by William P. Young. It helped me a lot even though it fiction it could read a nonfiction. I sent off for the book I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye, but I just can't seem to pick it up and read it as it has a picture of water on it and it reminds me of Bronda so much.
But please remember I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and we aren't walking alone here. May God Bless you... Brenda

At 9:18pm on November 9th, 2009, Brenda said…: Thank you Cindy for writing me back...I am so sorry about your Danny.. I know it is so hard, there are no words to express the pain. I cry everyday still and it's been just over a year and a half. Your loss it still so new sweetie. We will never get over it ...we just have to get through it one minute at a time because thats what they would want us to do. It is NOT easy..it never will be easy. We will miss them till the day we die and get to see them again. Bless you Cindy

At 7:34pm on October 29th, 2009, Ki said…: Hi Cindy, your son was a very handsome fellow and I know you do miss him greatly. I'm sure he was a joy to have around. I can't help but be moved by the story surrounding your son's death. You know God never purposed for us to experience such terrible encounters. He has purposed to do something about it. Did you know that Jesus Christ by means of his ransom sacrifice will bring back the dead just like he did in Bible times? He says so at John 5:28&29. There he says "Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out, those who did good things to a resurrection of life, those who practiced vile things to a resurrection of judgment." Also God promised at Revelation 21:3&4 that he will take away death forever. Certainly the encouragement we all need. Cindy, I find that reading the Bible helps during distressing times. Please find time to read the book of Psalms. God is the best comforter.

At 8:26am on October 29th, 2009, Lisa said…: The pain never goes away...however..today I have found the answer to why.
Why this keeps happening in our world today.
Please read my story and pass it along. This is Breaking News
www.Drugawareness.org/recentcases/suspicious-suicide-of-sister
LET ME KNOW IF YOUR STORY IS SIMILAR. OUTRAGED

At 5:00pm on October 28th, 2009, Cindy Sadler said…: I Miss Him Sooooooo Much!!

At 2:29am on October 5th, 2009, Tami said…: Cindy, i am so sorry! i just lost my Son on 06-22-09 in a motorcycle accident. Your son is so handsome, I wish there was something I could say or do to ease your pain, Please Just know that there is one more person out here holding in there heart.

XO
Tami

At 9:22am on September 22nd, 2009, Marina Angel said…: P>S> thank u for the wonderful pics of ur son His pics have made me very happy today and if i feel sad today i will think of Danny's beautiful smile w/ LOVE

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