"Dear Lita, I'm sorry for the immense grief you are in. I share this with you. It has just passed my 7th month of life with out my husband, my all. It doesn't feel like it's getting any easier...sometimes it feels like it's…"

"Dear Jane, I can picture Jerry saying these things to me as I'm overcome with tears yet again. Thank-you for the beautiful prose. I'll try to remember this and look for these small but wonderful things. Thank you!! A big hug, Georgette"

"Dera Robert, I'm so sorry for your loss and I understand your need to speak with her. My husband died suddenly at the age of 54, only 6 short months ago, from a terrible fall in our home and I never got to say good-bye or tell him "i love…"

"Susan, I'm so very sorry for the death of your beloved husband. I understand the  the distinct 'heaviness and 'squeezing' in your chest- it feels like your breath is being taken away- such a broken heart.... Please know that…"

"Susan, I'm so very sorry for the death of your beloved husband. I understand the  the distinct 'heaviness and 'squeezing' in your chest- it feels like your breath is being taken away- such a broken heart.... Please know that…"

"Wow, Maggie, Thank you for this . It is so decriptive of how I'm feeling. Have you shared this with your friends/family? and if so, were they glad you did or too uncomfortable to comment? I would like to know if I should dare share this…"

"Hi, My name is Georgette and my 54 yo husband of 24.5 years died suddenly from falling off a ladder in our home while trying to change a light bulb. He is my best friend, protector , soul-mate, love of my life and suddenly he's just…"

"It is only 6 months since I lost my soulmate/husband of 24.5 years in a sudden death and it is already the holiday season. 'No's' are very difficult as so many people seem to feel that I should be 'back to normal' when there…"