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Jul 3, 2012

Alicia Rodriguez left a comment for Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom

"Hi gina haven't heard from you i hope you're doing good jusy thinking of you hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM"

May 8, 2012

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom replied to faye beverley moxham's discussion why wont the pain go away in the group Loss of a Child

"Hello Faye my name is Gina and I also lost 2 sons. My oldest son Matthew was killed Feb 13, 1988 and my youngest son Cody was killes Feb 13, 2011. I am coming up on the anniversary of their death and I am dreading that day. Matthew was 4 and Cody…"

Jan 30, 2012

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Happy Memories of Loved Ones

I lost my son May 9, 2008 at age 18. I have shared my story of grief and healing with many, I thought it would be a great idea if we all shared a story of a happy time with our child or loved one, something that will make us smile.

Sep 26, 2011

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Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"I remember when I got Cody's. It was all I could think about till I got it and then reading it didnt seem to bring any closure. It did answer the question that he died within 5 minutes, and a broken rib lacerated his pulmunary vein but it didnt…"

Jul 28, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"http://tributeballoon.com/balloon/show/1053432 sorry for the wrong address but thank you everyone for the support during this period of my life. My kids are my life and two pieces of my heart are gone forever but I am still blessed with 6…"

Jul 28, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"http://tributeballoon/show/1053432 we also have a balloon for Cody he had always wanted to travel and he is making his mark around the world. Please help us send him as far as he can go. Missing you very much son and I am almost to the 6 month…"

Jul 27, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"So I made it through the 1st birthday without my Cody.His 22.one. His father and I spent it with his twin and sister. It was a tough time we had lots of tears but lots of smiles. The memories are precious. Happy Birthday in…"

Jul 12, 2011

Alicia Rodriguez commented on Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom's blog post Cody Lee Allen Phillips

"Gina SO SORRY FOR YOU'RE LOSS.LIKE YOU I TO HAVE LOST 2 SONS. MY OLDEST IN 1979. AND NOW MY BELOVED SON JESSE.I MISS THEM BOTH. BUT JESSE. I CALLED HIM MY KING.AND HE LIKED IT.HE LIKED TO PLAY AROUND TO LIKE YOUR CODY.I KNOW HOW YOU MUST BE…"

Jun 14, 2011

Carol Roberts left a comment for Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom

"Dear Gina, Thank you so much for your friendship <3 <3 <3 Please know our hearts here are as one. Wishing you moments of peace , and comfort, loving memories to sustain you, And vent any time <3 <3 …"

May 27, 2011

Tami commented on Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom's blog post My son Matthew

"Gina, wow, I am so sorry for all that you have been through, I have to look to you for strength, I lost my 18 year old son in a motorcycle accident almost 2 years ago. I came on here to wish Matt a Heavenly Birthday and just now read your entire…"

May 25, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"Happy birthday in Heaven Matt!!! give your brother cody a hug from Mommy. Always in my heart, I love you"

May 24, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"I am looking for somene whose child was a twin. My surviving twin is having a really hard time and I would love to talk to someone on ideas. He is 21 and lost without his twin brother. It has been 3 months since we lost Cody and he is trying so hard…"

May 12, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

May 12, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"Shannon and Nancy, your words are so comforting to me. Cody will be gone 3 months on the 13th and I also feel the God is there to help me through. Thank you for reassuring me of that."

May 11, 2011

Gina Phillips, Cody's Mom commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"Shannon and Nancy, your words are so comforting to me. Cody will be gone 3 months on the 13th and I also feel the God is there to help me through. Thank you for reassuring me of that."

May 11, 2011

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Video Of My Free spirited Angel Cody

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This is a video of Cody made by one of his friends, and it captures his spirit She did a wonderful job! Thanks JD

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My son Matthew

Posted on April 19, 2011 at 2:39pm 3 Comments 0 Likes

On May 25, 1983. I gave birth to my first child William Matthew Allen AKA Matt. On Feb. 13, 1

988 he spent the night with my parents and the house caught on fire. With the layout of the house the fire was between the two sections and my parents went out their back door trying to get in hi window but the fire had already… Continue

Cody Lee Allen Phillips

Posted on April 9, 2011 at 12:00am 8 Comments 0 Likes

Cody was my 21 year old Mommas boy. He had a heart of gold, he would have done anything for anyone. On the anniversay of his older brothers death Feb 13, 2011 Cody spent the day with me because he knew I always needed cheering up on that day.We had a wonderful day . We talked and he had a snowball fight with his little… Continue

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At 11:00pm on May 8, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…: Hi gina haven't heard from you i hope you're doing good jusy thinking of you hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM

At 12:19pm on May 27, 2011, Carol Roberts said…: Dear Gina,

Thank you so much for your friendship <3 <3 <3 Please know our hearts here are as one. Wishing you moments of peace , and comfort, loving memories to sustain you, And vent any time <3 <3 it's good for you and for us all to be acknowledged and validated <3 God Bless <3

At 12:19pm on May 27, 2011, Carol Roberts said…: Dear Gina,

Thank you so much for your friendship <3 <3 <3 Please know our hearts here are as one. Wishing you moments of peace , and comfort, loving memories to sustain you, And vent any time <3 <3 it's good for you and for us all to be acknowledged and validated <3 God Bless <3

At 11:32am on May 24, 2011, Paula G, Jimmy's Mother said…: Hello Gina, I read your commits and I want you to know that you're not alone. We are together in this journey. I lost my son December 7, 2010. He was 43. The pain never goes away. I am trying to understand this feeling I have everyday. And know that I will live with it the rest of my life. My prayers are with you. Paula

At 4:59am on May 13, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…: Gina, there is a group here on this site for siblings. Maybe you can get your son to read some of the posts or join. Or you can read what others are going thru.

Or order some books for him if you cant get out to shop without breaking down while looking. I know it was hard for us. So I order digital downloads or books by mail.

I am so sorry that you too are going thru this hell along with the others.

hugs to all

At 7:28pm on May 7, 2011, Wendy said…: thank you for adding me as your friend Gina. Happy mothers day. God bless and keep you,

Wendy

At 9:58pm on May 4, 2011, Valerie Sikonia said…: thanks Gina I sent a friend request to you on fb your story inspires me I hope things keep getting better for you XOXO

At 11:05pm on May 3, 2011, Valerie Sikonia said…: thanks for being my friend, i am so sorry that you lost 2 son's i can't imagine, and yours was also 21 and recent i know the emptiness, have you gone back to work yet? I am so angry i don't know if i can do it. All we want is our son's back but that isn't going to happen, I don't know if i can go on!

At 7:31am on April 30, 2011, Carrie L said…: Hi Gina I am so sorry ... I know you are going through a lot of pain and sadness.. I wish we weren't at this place in life. it has no purpose other than to want us to go with them. they are so special and so alive and now they are not. why so young why not us. why and all the regrets. his vibrancy will be forever in my heart. i cannot say i will ever be the same. i will not. i love him. i don't come on here as much as i did but found it comforint to talk to other moms. moms i think are the only ones who knw the full pain. we made these babies. and loved them. and wanted them to nurture us as them forever... love to you carrie

At 12:54am on April 22, 2011, Vickie Bruggeman said…: Thanks Gina for asking me to be your friend , I am sorry we became friends though the lost of our sons , Jarrett was my only son , my pride ,my joy. Jarrett was a amazing son Dont know how I make it everyday , I can't imagine losing two sons,losing one child is a life of living hell . I am here for you if you need someone to chat with , if you have facebook you can find me there, Vickie Fowler Bruggeman. I dont make it on here that often , Jarrett has a memory page on facebook.