Hi, just re-reading your story, I am praying for both of your sisters, I'm also praying that you have found peace in life.

Tami

Hopeful. I can't even imagine having to wait 11 months to find out what happened to your sister. My brother was missing for 3 days and that was the longest 3 days of my life wondering. We knew that he had probably drowned but just not having him home was awful. My heart goes out to you and I'm thankful you did finally get some closure. However, I don't believe you ever get back to normal with such tragedies. You only learn how to cope with it because you have no choice. Being a twin, I feel like only 1/2 person now and it's a very lonely feeling.. I have other siblings and love them dearly but there's just something about being a twin. You'd have to be one to understand. I will keep you in my prayers. I am so so sorry....Glenda

Hopeful. I can't even imagine having to wait 11 months to find out what happened to your sister. My brother was missing for 3 days and that was the longest 3 days of my life wondering. We knew that he had probably drowned but just not having him home was awful. My heart goes out to you and I'm thankful you did finally get some closure. However, I don't believe you ever get back to normal with such tragedies. You only learn how to cope with it because you have no choice. Being a twin, I feel like only 1/2 person now and it's a very lonely feeling.. I have other siblings and love them dearly but there's just something about being a twin. You'd have to be one to understand. I will keep you in my prayers. I am so so sorry....Glenda

 

Hi there. I wanted to send my love to you. I just checked out the website  for Gina, and am speechless. I want to share with you an amazing yahoo-group... check out http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/MOBSDB/ -- It will give you directions to join an email group so you can communicate with other siblings across the world who have had a sibling pass away. I hope you join to share your story and so we can give you support. Much love

Crystal

Ohio

Hey there.. I am so sorry for your loss... I completely understand when u say it seems to get harder with time.. I lost my only brother, Jack, Nov. 27, 2009. He was murdered, Shot to death, left on the side of the road. The person that found him, ran over him... noone deserves that... the monster that killed my brother also killed the girlfriend and shot another guy in the face.. then turned the gun on himself... some say that justice was served.. he's dead and not he will pay.. in hell... that doesn't seem like justice to me.. granted, we have "closure" and we don't have to go through a trial... but we also have to live our life with unanswered questions.... since finding this site, and bring able to talk about my feeling, I have been able to feel better but feeling "better" isn't feeling normal by no means.... when I have a good day I find myself feeling guilty for not being sad... it is by far the hardest thing I have ever been through but knowing I'm not going through this alone is truely a blessing.. we are all her for each other.. one day at a time sweetie.. hugs...... I am here!!!

Dear Hopeful I am so sorry for the lost of your two sisters, I dont have the words to say to any one anymore I am just lost and i can not cope with the death of my daughter. Everyone says you must go on, but i feel my world ended when she died. I do have two other children my daughter lives in wisconsin and my son is home with me. I two lost my father and my two brothers all within 3 weeks of each other. I just want you to know you are in my prayers , i wished i lived closer to you so i would have someone to talk to. i will say prayer for you. hugs to you Donna 

Hi hopeful your story is devestating. Please be strong and take care of your family. Please be there every single day for your children laugh and play with them hug them listen to everything they have to say. It is hard raising children but it is worse if something happens to them .. for some stupid reason I thought my kids were invincible. I was wrong. I am sorry for your loss. love those little babies your bonds will grow immensely. Carrie L

I feel for you so much. I lost both of my sisters also, my 47 yr old sister in October 2009 & my 44 yr old sister in November 2009. Both of their deaths came to a shock to our family, they did have medical issues but nothing that kept them from working & raising their children & leading normal lives. I do wonder why some families are dealt these terrible tragedies. I feel as time goes on it seems to get harder for me, I miss my sisters so much. You & your family are in my prayers. God bless.