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Julie replied to Jessica Brief's discussion Signs in the group loss of a parent"Hi Jessica:
I do believe in signs and I also believe that most people receive signs if they really open their minds. The watch incident is hardly disputable. I think that is amazing. We are blessed when we receive signs and really see them.
I have…"
Julie replied to ann grisham's discussion feeling so guilty in the group loss of a parent"Hi Ann:
I am sorry for your loss and your subsequent feelings that you are going through. I have lost both of my parents and although I live close by, I still have guilty feelings that I deal with everyday...why didn't I do this, why…"
Julie replied to LegacyConnect's discussion Messages from the other side"A reply to Bethany....don't ever feel as if you are going crazy. The only crazy people are the ones that ignore the signs. Best of luck to you and I am sorry for your loss. Julie."
Julie replied to LegacyConnect's discussion Messages from the other side"I believe that our loved ones "peek in" every once in awhile and sometimes send us messages. I think that when a sign does come through rather than question it, accept it and embrace it. My mother and father have both passed. I miss them…"
Julie commented on jen's group loss of a parent"Happy Easter to my mother and father in heaven. I miss you both so very much. A child, no matter how old, is never ready to lose their parents. It is a lonely feeling and a void that no other can fill, love you both mom and dad."
Julie replied to LegacyConnect's discussion Remembering Dad"You are still very early on in the grieving process. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to you. My father passed a little over a year ago. The pain never goes away but the ability to live your life becomes more accepting. I still talk to my father and…"
Julie replied to LegacyConnect's discussion Remembering Dad"My dad had a quiet wiseness about him. With all girls in the family, he knew how easy it was for an argument to arise. He would never play into it but rather ignore it. My father passed away a little over a year ago. I was with him when he passed. I…"
Julie commented on jen's group loss of a parent"I lost my father a year ago. My mother passed away a few years before that. It is an undescribable emptiness that is felt when both parents are gone; a sadness in the heart, mind, body and soul that never disappears. The pain never goes away and…"
Julie replied to elyse's discussion How do I accept this huge loss? Void so big please help in the group loss of a parent"Hi Terri:
I can read the pain in your comments. My sympathys go out to you. I have lost both of my parents but I could not fathom the loss of my child. I would feel somewhat at ease knowing that your son is with your mother and father. Do you ever…"
Julie replied to elyse's discussion How do I accept this huge loss? Void so big please help in the group loss of a parent"Hi Elyse:
My mother passed about six years ago and she was my best friend and confidante in the entire world. The hole in my heart was unbearable and I cried everyday for almost a year. Your life will never be the same but you will learn to live…"
Julie commented on jen's group loss of a parent"Thank you to everyone's kind words. It is a pain so deep when both parents are gone. I feel so very alone at times. It helps to talk to them and I do that quite often. I also feel them surrounding me at times and that is reasurring. This site…"
Julie replied to Angie's discussion For Our Mothers in the group loss of a parent"Thank you Jenny for this beautiful poem. In my heart, this is exactly what I believe when we lose a loved one...but I could never put it in beautiful words such as this. I lost my mother a few years ago and recently lost my father. Thank you for…"
Julie replied to stace ann's discussion lost my mom last night in the group loss of a parent"I am so sorry. My mother passed six years ago from cancer. We took care of her at home also. She was also my best friend so I do know the loss you feel...not only a mother but a best friend in the whole world. My father just passed a month ago. He…"
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I think of her everyday...
Posted on March 12, 2010 at 12:56pm 0 Comments 0 Likes
I lost my mother to cancer 5 years ago. She was not only my mother but my best friend and confidante. It is the most difficult thing that I have ever went through. I still think of her everyday. I dream about her sometimes and I wonder if anyone else out there dreams about a lost loved one?
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- At 3:15pm on May 5, 2010, Julie said…
- Hi White Dove:
Sorry, I don't get on this site too often but today I have a couple of times. I too have had many experiences, visions, voices. I know how you feel and I am very guarded with who I tell this to as some people think you are crazy. My "insight" what I like to call it, has been passed down from generation to generation, in the maternal side of the family. My mother was insightful too. I saw her spirit after she passed as well as have seen and spoken to her many times via my dreams. I view my insight as a gift most of the time, but there was a few years where I closed it off due to some really scary things that were happening. I always feel better when I hear about someone else that has this "gift". Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to say that you and I have the same gift, there are different types and some are more gifted than others. Thanks for responding and I'll look for you more in the future white dove. Julie.
- At 12:15pm on May 5, 2010,
white dove said… - Hi Julie i found your page by clicking a couple times on your name :) Sometimes i wish i wasn't so sensitive to spirit but other times glad that i am... but what does one do when family, loved ones Dont want to hear... and they continue in their torture.. (the girls that took their lives)... Many times i have to stand back. But i do try hard... a relative of the girls told me: "if i didnt know u the way i do id think you were crazy in your visions". OK... oh well. guess she hasn't felt them. My daughter and i had EXTREME experiences in caring for mom/gramma... so spiritual... i could write a book!!!!! The medical world calls the soon to depart visions as 'halousinations" sorry on my spelling :)... but NO it is not . I have had several dreams with my beloveds in them... so real.. and i have many messages to relay... a sacred pipe carrier told me.. he had a message for me, but had to go home and smoke on this with the Elders... a couple months later my dreams came... A gift? Yes... I do feel deep in my heart your dream was very real, grab hold and take it deep into your heart and soul and cherrish it~ Blessings *
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