"I'm so sorry to hear this Angela, may God be with you."

"Marcy, thank you for your reply, it was very uplifting to have read.  I am doing o.k, still looking for work.  Please accept my condolences for the loss of your husband, especially on this…"

"It's really amazing how insensitive people could be to us, but they are.  During the period of time while my wife was dying, I made a few mistakes at work, I had a toxic boss, and he came down on me severely for…"

"Carol, I think it is harder for people like us who lost their spouse suddenly. The first year or two you are still dealing with the shock and in kind of a daze mode. Now the reality is settling in. Keep connected here and reach out for support…"

"I hear you Max..just starting my tbird year...lonely without him...so unfair...miss the closeness our frie.dship and the intimacy."

"Maximo, I am sorry that you have to be part of our group here but I am glad you found us. The best advice I can give you is take things with your life as you can deal with them. For some people it's a day at a time, for some, it's minute…"

"Carol, I'm sorry you lost your husband so suddenly.  I lost my wife to breast cancer, and heart disase, both took their time with her.  For me three years and six months had gone by on December 26th, just like you I thought…"

"I lost my husband three years ago to a sudden heart attack.  I thought that I would be better, but I am not.  Sometimes it is worse than it was then.  I am trying so hard to get through this, but everything feels like a punishment."

"It is been three and a half years since my husband died of a heart attack.  I thought that I would be better, but I am not.  I am just going through the motions.  I want to move through this, but I seem to be unable to do this"

"Michele I am sorry for what you are going through, I have not been here for a while; but I believe I needed to respond to your message.  it's taken me awhile. I too also have one of those "spots" where "it…"

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"Maximo, My heart goies out to you and the loss of your wife.  I am pretty much on the same page, today marks the 2 year anniversary of my fiance's accident that took his all too short life 4 months before his 40th birthday.  Your post…"

"Thank you for your prayers Margarita and I'm sorry for your loss.  We lost our oved ones just days apart; I wish you the best."

"I'm in Connecticut, it sounds like a good idea.  A big group hug to everyone."