"Hi Liria, You're not alone.  I wish I had something more witty and comforting to say.  I struggle in a similar way.  I'm sorry you're hurting, I know how hard it is sometimes.  "

"He died almost a year ago.  I never realized he was the glue that held us all together.  I didn't know that my mom would not smile anymore.  Family has fallen to pieces.  I live less then an hour away, I haven't seen…"