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EVER. HE DIDNT GET TO SEE HIS TWINS BORN BUT HE NEW HE WAS HAVING THEM,HE EVEN NAMED THE BABY BOY JANSEN AND THE BABY GIRL IS JYPSY. HE EVEN SAID THEY WOULD BE BORN ON THE SAME DAY AS HIS LITTLE BOY JIMMY AND THRY WERE.HE ALSO HAS A OLDER DAUGHTER MISS CLOEY THANK GOD HE LEFT ME 4 PRESIOUS GRAND CHILDREN. HE HAD THE BIGGEST HEART AHD LOVED HIS FAMILY, I JUST THOUGHT GOD WOULD TAKE ME BEFORE ONE OF MY CHILDREN. OH HOW THERE IS A DAY THAT DONT GO BY HE IS ALWATS IN MY HEART,OH HOW I MISS HIS LAUGH HIS HUG, ARE SAY MOM I LOVE YOU MORE, WHAT A HEART HE HAD. AND NOW MINE HAS BIG HOLE IN IT IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME,OH HOW HE WAS LOVED AND WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN NEVER. BABY MOM MISSES YOU SO MUCH IF I COULD GET ONE HUG ONE SMILE ONE JOKE A FUNNY STORY. WE WILL TOGRTER AGAIN. MOM LOVES YOU YOUR MOM PAM

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At 11:52pm on November 26th, 2009, Dehuelbes said…: Thanks for commenting back! That was very nice of you... :) you can print it for free on the website.. All articles are always free of charge even the books.. I

At 9:46am on November 26th, 2009, Dehuelbes said…: I'm very sorry for your loss, i don't know what it feels like to lose a child, as I'm but a child..i have lost relatives and friends and so I'm told that is a different pain. So my condolences. You will be comforted to know that God doesn't purposely take people through death, and he gives us all a chance to see our lost loved ones again in the near future. I invite you too know how this possible: http://- the article http://www.watchtower.org/e/20090301/article_01.htm
if you just copy and paste it too your search engine I'm sure that will work :)
Does God Take Children to Become Angels in heaven" ...it also explains the hope to see them again! I hope you can look it up, it will bring much needed comfort to you. -Sincerely Dehuelbes

At 8:36pm on November 25th, 2009, PAM BRYAN said…: TO ALL THE BROKEN HEARTED MOMS I SEND MY LOVE. THE HOIDAY ARE BAD AND WE ALL ALL IN THE SAME PAIN MY HEART GOES OUT TOO ALL. MY DEAR SON JUSTIN IS MISSED EVERY DAY NO MATTER WERE IM AT AS IM SURE YALLS ARE, BUT SOME WAY THE GRACE OF GOD IS THE ONLY WAY I GUESS WE GET BY. MY BABY WAS 31 TWINS ON THE WAY THEY WILL BE 11 MONTHS TOMORROW HE DIDNT GET TO SEE BUT HE NEW HE WAS HAVING TWINS,AND WAS SO HAPPY. THEY ARE WITH ME TONIGHT AND IT DOES HELP AND SAD TO THAT HE WOULD BE ONE PROUD DAD. LETS ALL TRY AND BE STRONG TOMORROW AND KNOW OUR BABYS ARE WITH US IN THERE ON WAY. GOD BE WITH YOU ALL. LOVE JUSTINS MOM PAM

At 11:46pm on November 22nd, 2009, Bunny said…: Thankyou for writing. I'm ok, I just have my ups and downs. Today was another emotional day. Today was my brothers 58th birthday, he passed away 6 years ago. Also we went to the military museum. My son was in active duty in the Army. I saw many military uniforms at the funeral services and at the that memorial given by the military. I get especially emotional when I see fatigues. My youngest went to a recruiters assembly to think about going into the military. I couldn't get near or face the Army recruiters. So don't be fooled I'm still greiving.
I well up take some deep breathes

At 3:20pm on November 20th, 2009, Bunny said…: My son was a twin I lost him July 19 2009. I haven't been told what the cause of death was other then he had a lot of medication in him but he had been in the hospital and they had made him take them. Today would have been his 36th birthday and after 4 months of heavy greiving I can find it in me to celebrate his life. I knew for the last two years he was suffering from PTSD and depression and nightmares. I have faith that gives me comfort and I feel his presence all around me. If it comes out that they believe it was suicide I know that something had to put him there and that was the cause. I believe his heart was broken. Take good care of yourself tho I know it may be hard for a while. Our children bring us pain when they enter this life and we survive. It is painful even when they can't be with us in life but we survive. It is terribly painful when we know they are in pain and/or are suffering. I spent many hours trying help him get thru his problems but I just couldn't. He is at peace now and no longer suffering or crying in pain. Our whole family and his friends have all pulled together to help support each other. And reached out our hand to others. May you have a higher power to help lead your way. To all the mothers who have lost a child my heart pours out to you.

At 7:10pm on November 15th, 2009, Kathy Mook said…: Hi Pam, I don't recall if I've ever written to you. I'm so sorry for the loss of your Justin and I'm sorry for your not receiving responses. I started out my online grief journey on the Hospice site but there wasn't any activity on the loss of child section.(that's good) but I was feeling really desperate not to just share but to know someone,somewhere, read it and responded even if just to say, I'm here, I'm sorry. I usually read the wall and try to respond on the person's page. If you go to my page,my email address is there. I'd love to hear from you. Hugs of Hope.

At 1:40pm on October 31st, 2009, Tami said…: Hi Pam, I started a new Group, just to see if we can get any help starting memorial pages, I have one but I am not that good, http://joey-scalise.last-memories.com/index.php that is my sons, I dont know how to add music and videos, but its a start, It isnt a free site, I think I paid maybe $40 for a year, i cant remember, there are a lot out there, Here is the link to the new group I added just to see if we can get help in starting one and maybe getting to learn how to put things on the sites once we have them going. My love to you and Justin....http://connect.legacy.com/group/helpinstartingamemorialsiteforourlovedones

At 11:24pm on October 30th, 2009, Tami said…: Hi Pam, Thank you for writting to me, I know what you mean about the hole in your heart, It feels so empty... I too get angry, I dont get angry with God, I get angry with everyone else, especially the police, and the CHP... I have a hard time forgiving the police for not letting me go to my Son and the CHP because the report is done so badly, 10 pictures from a fatal accident and they were so dark at that, I might file a grievance, I just dont know what Im doing yet. Do you have a memorial site for Justin? If you do I would love to go look at it.

At 9:56pm on October 23rd, 2009, Wendy said…: Hi Pam,
I am praying for all mothers. It's something none of us will ever let go of, is our children, it's so hard. I sometimes, like tonight, feel so empty hearted in Matthews absents. my prayers are with you,
Wendy

At 10:53pm on October 18th, 2009, Janie said…: HI PAM, HOW ARE YOU DOING? I JUST REALIZED THAT MOST OF THE MOMS, I'VE CONTACTED ARE JUST
NEW. YOU ALL HAVE JUST LOST YOUR CHILD. I AM SO SORRY. IT WILL BE 2 YEARS IN JANUARY THAT
RICH IS GONE. I GUESS TIME DOESN'T MATTER, ONLY GOD WILL HELP US GET THROUGH THIS. I FEEL THIS PAST WEEK THAT THE LORD HAS BEEN
MAKING ME STRONGER. I HAVEN'T CRIED. I SMILE MORE WHEN I LOOK AT RICH'S PICTURES, THOSE EYES OF HIS SAY "MOM IT'LL BE OK, DON'T CRY"
WHEN I WAS AT THE POINT YOU AND TAMI ARE I
NEVER WOULD HAVE BEEN ABLE TO THINK STRAIGHT
TO WRITE ON THIS SITE. I WAS SO MESSED UP, COULDN'T THINK OR MAKE A DECISION IF MY LIFE DEPENDED ON IT. THANK GOD MY HUSBAND,(NOT RICH'S DAD) IS SO PATIENT AND UNDERSTANDING.
I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I WAS DOING, IT FELT LIKE I WAS LOSING MY MIND. THEN I GOT NEWS, MY SISTER'S YOUNGEST SON, DIED, IT WILL BE A YEAR
10/23, AND OF COURSE THAT WASNT ALL, I WAS STILL TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF MY MOTHER WHO WAS 93, SHE DIED NOV. 18 2008. I'M NOW AFTER THESE YEARS JUST STARTING TO FOCUS ON OUR LORD AND HIS HELP. GOD BE WITH YOU,

HUGS AND PRAYERS

FRIEND JANIE

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