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Hello and prayers to all!

I lost my mom and my daughters gramma on 3-30-09. We moved her next door to us the summer of 08. Her health was declining and it was good to have her close by. I had to rush her to the hospital with severe stomach pains in January (she had ruptured a intestine)!. We spent 13 days there.. day and night. Just trying to watch over her and get her home Alive!! Thru a "typo" mistake made thru the nursing admins. She was immediately put on Hospice care (at home) instead of the plan set at the hospital. I feel this took her will away to live.. she did have many medical issues.. and declined swiftly.. but i dont feel any of them were enough to send her on her journey home. Just my gut feeling. Many Many experiences in her "leaving" that has left us shell shocked!! Our grief has been horrible. Still, we are having problems functioning... however we give it our best daily. I love this site for we are not judged and unfortunately, we are now all part of this "elete group". Surely wasnt ready to join.....

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At 1:09pm on November 6th, 2009, GailM. said…: Hi,
I guess I am not doing something right as I don't get e-mails that there are new messages unless there aren't any. I did get the book from the library "The Shack" and have read a couple chapters. How is everyone? I am not sure how to be sure I receive notices when there are new messages? Peace to all.........................GailM.

At 6:58am on October 21st, 2009, GailM. said…: Hi,
I received your message. This one had a place to answer you. How are you today? I am going to
meet a friend for lunch and then some grocery shopping. I have to go feed the Cats and Birds and Squirrels now. ttyl Gail

At 3:32pm on October 20th, 2009, GailM. said…: I tried and you need the other person's e-mail address is the way I understand this?

At 3:31pm on October 20th, 2009, GailM. said…: Hi White Dove,
I found a page with a lot of comments going back awhile. That is good as I would like to know of other peoples' experiences. Thanks for finding me. I again am not sure how to add comments other than you send a message. There is something that says to "invite friends". I am going to try to figure how to do that.

At 11:57am on October 20th, 2009, GailM. said…: Hi I received one message and not the other. This is very confusing............and I am thinking of getting a part-time job...........lol.............

At 11:54am on October 3rd, 2009, Optimal Hospice Care - Grief Support Group said…: I'm proud of you for seeking support for you and your daughter. As I am not a bereavement counselor myself, I would suggest you contact our bereavement counselor or come to one of our groups to get the best guidance. I hope this helps.

At 9:53am on October 3rd, 2009, Optimal Hospice Care - Grief Support Group said…: Hello Paula. Optimal groups are open to the public and free of charge for anyone who has suffered a loss. This of course, includes hospice families who have lost a loved one. If you have more questions, I encourage you to contact our bereavement counselor at 661 716-4000.

At 9:46pm on August 14th, 2009, Janie said…: Hello Paula, my name is Janie. I live in Brookfield, Wi
I lost my son a year and a half ago. would you be interested in sharing?

At 5:28pm on July 31st, 2009, JAYLEEN said…: i too wish i could get a sign from her.

At 5:26pm on July 31st, 2009, JAYLEEN said…: yes maybe she was. i just wish i knew if she was really ok. i dont think she could see the last few hours of her life, i just wondered if it hurt her to die, no my mom never wanted to die. but i think she knew she was near death that day cause she had been hulllucenating and looking up at the sky saying there was alot of people up there.

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