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Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Greg, Many of the animal rescue sites are run by volunteers and unfortunately are not kept up to date as they should be.  But I am a firm believer that it happened for a reason and was not meant to be.  And when you least expect it you…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Greg ...  I am so sorry the animal shelter wasn't on top of things.  Trust in me please that there is a reason this didn't work out because in the very near future you are going to meet a dog that you know should be with you and…"
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Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Called the animal shelter, the dog I sent the adoption application for was adopted 2 months ago, just never bothered to take it off the website yet. Just got back from the support group meeting, I'm the only one that showed up, besides the lady…"
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Bereaved Spouses

A continutaion of the "When a Spouse or Partner Dies" thread.
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol, How are you doing ? I hope your doing well. I may not post but I'm always thinking of all you."
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thanks for the support Greg. I was sooo off yesterday, I took my heavy duty antidepressant last night. Of course, I slept thru the alarm clock and was groggy all morning. But, I did sleep."
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Lol that should be 11 pm-12am every day."
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"At the same time Marsha, although I would love to retire, at 55, I would be penalized in my retirement funds. I have to wait until 57 or 58. Even if I was judged with a disability, it would hurt and barely cover my insurance. When Bruce was sick, I…"
Wednesday
Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Well, things were better today. I think some conversations occurred at a higher level. So some of the stress is lessened. Floors just need a final buffing and quarter round and edging in front of the tile and a board replaced by the entry. I…"
Wednesday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Greg ... Yes, thankfully things have straightened out between my friend and I.  We are both relieved.  I apologized for something I honestly didn't do because good friendships can have their bumpy roads and it wasn't worth losing…"
Tuesday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Janeo ... Well then girl do I have to fly my skinny body on a broom and drop a few bombs on where you live so you'll contact me.  LOL  I know where you live.  LOL  Would like to keep in touch with you as I do worry about…"
Tuesday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa ...  Thanks for your nice compliments and I appreciate them.  Even going through grief I try to realize other people have problems in their lives as well even if they have not lost a loved one.  I am happy things are going a…"
Tuesday
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, I miss you too. And definitely be my pleasure to give him swat on his head. '"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, you do it with style and just a touch of pepper. Good for you. I woULD up talking to people in diversity and equity who understood what was going on. They suggested I request an accommodation for a temp disability and if it keeps on being a…"
Tuesday
Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, I hope you can work things out with your friend, and no it wasn't right how she treated you. Although I know I have done the same thing. I've said things to people and later regretted opening my big mouth, but I was never to big to…"
Tuesday
Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa, Sorry your having a bad day. You have so much going on you are getting overwhelmed. Add all that to what you are already dealing with will make you feel like your going around in circles. And usually when one thing goes wrong, the rest…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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