"this emotion is a common one, even though most people dont think so. I was kept from my dad by my sister and mother for 18 months while he was sick due to the fact i put my disabled adult daughter in a group home and they didnt like my dad thought…"
"I lost my dad what will be a year Nov 3 I got the bombed dropped on my halloween night my mother and sister had kept me from him why he was ill with prostate cancer and sense i am married and my so called sister lives there she gained control…"
"I have the same thing and cant get past what was robbed of me.my time with him because of a decision i made for my disabled daughter my mother did not like. My thing is I feel like he is drifting away from me and oh that hurts
"all I can say is that is the best idea I have evr heard and wish i had thought of something like that when my sister and mother kept me from my Dad and I got an awful phone call hallowwen night he was going to die and didnt even know he was there,…"
"Hi Cecillia, I lost my dad on Nov 3, 2011 to advanced prostate cancer that turned into flesh eating. I t is going to be very tough. I am coming up on almost a year and have spent many nights crying when everyone is asleep. My thing that has helped…"
"my dad passed nov 3,2011. he had advanced prostate cancer that turned into flesh eating. my sister and my mother kept me away from him during this period and i got no info until halloween night when i got the wind knocked out of my sails. Halloween…"
"Ann believe me i know what you are feeling my dad passed away Nov3,2011 from advanced prostae cancer that turned into flesheating but to understand why i say i understand is a long story and you dont have to read it right off.I married in 1994 and…"
"I think thats all we want is to see them agian but i dont think that is the way he would want. Your dad loved you and i know you miss mine dearly as i miss my dad who passed Nov 3, 2011 and if you read my post i was kept from him till then. not due…"
"Hi i lost my father on Nov 3,2011 due to advanced prostate cancer that turned into flesh eating. He had been in and out of the the hospital in the past couple of years due to the prostate not being treated right and lyme disease. my sister and…"
"My father passed on Nov 3,2011 of advanced prostate cancer that turned into flesh eating disease. My sister and my mother kept me away from him up until halloween night when i got a phone call from my ex mother long story that my father wasnt going…"
We have a lot in common. I also have fibromyalgia and Lupus so I know how hard it can be. I also have a granddaughter with Downs Syndrome and she is 2 1/2. She is the smartest, sweetest little girl I know. Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you and know how you're feeling. If I can help just let me know.
Tracy, I'm sure your dad loved you. Sometimes fathers have to go along with the mom's to keep peace but I guarantee he still loved you. Sometimes when there are others in the family that just won't let you have peace, it is better just to sit back and let them carry the anger. I have a relative like that too and I have decided the only way to have peace in my life is to just not engage in anything with her. I still go to family get-togethers but since my dad and mom are both gone, it's just about 4 times a year. In bad cases you are probably better off just being with your husband and kids and let the destructive members of the family destruct without you. Good luck.