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Phil's Mamama left a comment for Tammy Casillas "Dear Tammy, your words could not be any more true. It is so hard and so sad. It has been 3 yrs for us and each day brings a new kind of sadness. There are many caring people here who in such a special way truly care.
Phils…"
Phil's Mamama left a comment for Diane Yamnitz"I am so sorry about your loss.
Phils Mamma
Another Diane in NC"
Phil's Mamama replied to Gail~Alex's Mom's discussion 3 years and still on this horrible rollercoaster ride... in the group Loss of a Child"Gail, I am so sorry and so sorry that I truly understand.
It has been three years for us on Jan 16. As for as I am concerned, my life is over.
I just feel weak and sad.
I do not think that what once was normal ever will be again.
Your…"
Phil's Mamama left a comment for JoAnn Brozowski"I am so glad that you told us about this. I will get others to vote too.
What a wonderful person you are. . .
Thinking of you.
Philips Mamma
Diane in NC"
shannon churchill left a comment for Phil's Mamama"I know.... we are no longer who we were and never will be again. "
Phil's Mamama left a comment for shannon churchill"I just what you wrote on the comment wall. Each word you say is how I feel. What I care about is what all grieving parents understand. People think I am selfish but I just cannot care about many things anymore.
I am so sorry…"
Phil's Mamama left a comment for JoAnn Brozowski"I just read what you what written. . .no simple sentence expresses my feelings more. Thinking of you.
Phils Mamma"
Tami left a comment for Phil's Mamama"Diane, Thank you for writing, I feel selfish because I get more out of being here then I could ever give, I think that we all are so fortunate to have found each other, its unfortunate that we even had to look, but a blessing that we are together.…"
Tami left a comment for Phil's Mamama"Diane, Thank you for writing, I feel selfish because I get more out of being here then I could ever give, I think that we all are so fortunate to have found each other, its unfortunate that we even had to look, but a blessing that we are together.…"
Phil's Mamama left a comment for Tami"Tami, I want to thank you for all you do for all of us. You must be an Angel to care so deeply for others when you are so sad too.
Philips Mamma
Diane Dillon Greensboro NC"
Phil's Mamama left a comment for JoAnn Brozowski"JoAnn, sending you warm thoughts and hugs today.
The days are not easy and i think about all the time left without our sons.
Phils Mamma
Diane"
Comment Wall (85 comments)
- At 9:52am on April 15, 2011, shannon churchill said…
- I know.... we are no longer who we were and never will be again.
- At 4:21pm on January 23, 2011, Tami said…
Diane, Thank you for writing, I feel selfish because I get more out of being here then I could ever give, I think that we all are so fortunate to have found each other, its unfortunate that we even had to look, but a blessing that we are together. Thanks again.
Much Love
Tami
- At 4:21pm on January 23, 2011, Tami said…
Diane, Thank you for writing, I feel selfish because I get more out of being here then I could ever give, I think that we all are so fortunate to have found each other, its unfortunate that we even had to look, but a blessing that we are together. Thanks again.
Much Love
Tami
- At 6:54pm on January 21, 2011,
Cathy said… Thanks for reading about him and for responding. There have been a lot of visits to his website since his death as word traveled across the US - 12 from Greensboro. I'm thankful he left this for us, and I know it was God's plan for him to post it for others. I hope things are better for you - this is worse than I even could imagine and I have tried to imagine how hard it would be.
Cathy
- At 1:18pm on January 21, 2011,
JoAnn Brozowski said…
- Thanks so much, today seems to be a bad day.
- At 7:52pm on January 14, 2011,
- I, too, started to feel very bad this afternoon. I realized this will never change, never get better, and I will never be happy again. And I will always walk around with a weight attached to my heart. I really don't want to spend years and years like this.
Hugs
JoAnn
- At 8:12am on January 14, 2011,
Yes, I count those on this site among the friends I have. Even though none of us have ever met in person, we are closer than most.
Thinking of you.
JoAnn
- At 8:20am on January 13, 2011,
Blessedly I have two people who work with me who have been LIFESAVERS. One confided to me after the funeral that she had lost a daughter at age 11 in 1991. I had known her 5 years and never knew that! The other only has one child, as I did, and I think she can relate a small bit to what I go through. But they both have been there in person, by phone, any way necessary. When I'm crying, when I'm yelling, whatever. They even make sure that we go out walking at lunchtime as often as possible because they know exercise is good and I just want to get up, go to work, come home and go to sleep. Without them I honestly don't know what I would have done. I have two sisters and they were very good in the beginning, but they do not live very close so it is not the same as Anne and Kathy from work.
Thinking of you
JoAnn
- At 2:37pm on January 11, 2011,
- It will be one year for me at the end of the month. Feels like one hour, feels like a lifetime. This isn't going to heal, this isn't going to get better, this isn't going to go away. It took me 11 months to come to that realization.
- At 1:44pm on January 8, 2011,
Cathy Pearly said… - Thanks Diane. I appreciate your comments. Holidays were hard, but they are OVER...and I SURVIVED. Hard days, lonely days, much denial...all behind me as we start a new year of holidays to endure. The good news is I know I will survive....I have friends here on this site, and a family that loves me, and I am much luckier than many other people in the world, so I have to be thankful for that and move forward. I was stuck during the holidays, but I am on the go again.
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