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judy replied to Luciana Flanders's discussion I LOST MY BROTHER in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"The key to your guilt, or should I say the reason for your guilt, you have hit right on the head....YOU DIDNT KNOW!  You didn't know how sick he really was.  You didn't know your time was so short with him.  And,…"
Mar 12, 2012
judy commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"Mr Duran,      You write so beautifully.  Such a memorial to the love your son had/has for his family...and likewise...you all have for him.      Six years is nothing.  Not even a slap on the…"
Jun 21, 2011
judy commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"Mr Duran,      You write so beautifully.  Such a memorial to the love your son had/has for his family...and likewise...you all have for him.      Six years is nothing.  Not even a slap on the…"
Jun 21, 2011
judy replied to ALLISON's discussion HOW DO YOU HANDLE BIRTHDAY? in the group LOSS OF A SIBLING SUPPORT GROUP
"I totally understand that.  I lost my sister when she was 40.  For the first year, I couldnt even look at a picture of her.  I had began to talk about her more and more without crying about 6 months into the first year of her death,…"
May 16, 2011
judy replied to ange's discussion lost my brother in the group Have you lost a loved one
"I so totally understand your pain.  Im so sorry for your loss of half your soul.  I say that because I know that is how it feels.  And, it not only feels that way...it IS that way!!! Siblings are made of the same genetic…"
Jan 14, 2011
judy replied to ange's discussion lost my brother in the group Have you lost a loved one
"I so totally understand your pain.  Im so sorry for your loss of half your soul.  I say that because I know that is how it feels.  And, it not only feels that way...it IS that way!!! Siblings are made of the same genetic…"
Jan 14, 2011
judy commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"Wow....what a beautiful thing that that would be!!!!  Hang in there, Melinda.  You never know.  Ours is not to judge. "
Jan 3, 2011
judy commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"Im so sorry you are feeling this way, and I went through the same thing, but...you arent leaving her behind. You really arent. You are taking her with you everywhere you go. I know it sounds so cliche, and the last thing you want to hear is that she…"
Nov 13, 2010
judy commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child
"Im so sorry you are feeling this way, and I went through the same thing, but...you arent leaving her behind. You really arent. You are taking her with you everywhere you go. I know it sounds so cliche, and the last thing you want to hear is that she…"
Nov 13, 2010
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judy replied to marcy's discussion The 4th month my sister was killed on this day. in the group loss of a sibling
"I am so sorry for your loss. You are right...no one can know how we as siblings feel. I know that the grief of others is as bad, but, as siblings it is different. They were our friend, our confidant, our other half. When they are gone, so are the…"
Aug 4, 2010

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I lost my faith, and it hasnt returned

Posted on June 16, 2010 at 6:00am 0 Comments

Aug.3rd, 2006. I lost my only sibling. My sister Sheila. It was a sudden illness, and she managed to hold on for 2 weeks, but, her body could take no more and she lost her battle to live. This is the same day that I lost my desire to believe in God.

I look back on what I believed in, and the picture others have in their heads of him, and it seems almost ridiculous. I cant believe that I ever worshipped something that could be so cruel. How could a loving God let my sis or my family go… Continue

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