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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hey everyone, I had to share this one with you and this is why.  I was teary-eyed while driving a few days back feeling sorry for myself and this song came on the radio and I have to say I found myself smiling and singing to it which…"
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Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol, After Desert Dove spoke so highly of the movie, "The Shadowlands",  I became interested in watching it and I was able to google the title and watch it in its entirety on my computer.  And it is a great movie - grab…"
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Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa, Round-up kills cells and every microorganism in the ground not my favorite item.  If using weed killers be careful to just spray what you want killed or it will kill everything that you sprayed. If using weed killer in the lawn make…"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Who was in shadowlands Carol?"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Felt out of sorts since I took a fall and went for a massage on Friday. Worked part of Saturday then took a sauna and a hot bath to get out the rest of the pain. Woke up today feeling much better. Have been just doing small things around the house…"
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DesertDove commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"  Carol....  Hi   I'm doing ok  thx for asking  but I know what you mean getting tired  especially with granddaughter, but how nice.   Nice you & Marsha live near each other!  It's been…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa ..  all counseling is free from me.  Now if I could only take my own advice I could be doing better, but trying hard to center myself like we are all doing.  I find I'm either nil of energy or suddenly I race around like…"
Thursday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa .. I am so sorry you fell and that's something all of us have to watch.  I'm in the same situation you are because if I hurt myself there is one to look after me either.  Not a nice feeling.  It's normal to have…"
Thursday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol ...  It's been a lot hotter where you live, but even where I am it's so hot I've been 'flashing' the on-coming traffic just to catch a breeze and it's one ugly scene!  Look for me on Global News! …"
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Barbara Sullivan commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you Carol, for your input.  I have been feeling very emotional, lately, and have decided that this is not the best frame of mind or spirit for making serious decisions.  There is no hurry about making a choice.  I will keep your…"
Thursday
Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Carol, I thought I was handling things well. I thought I needed to start living again and I have so much energy that I cannot stop. I am ADD and I truly believe that when we help others we help ourselves. Unfortunately I think I overdid it. I…"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I hate this. I hate feeling helpless."
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Counsel me Marsha. You seem to do so well."
Thursday
Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I'm back. I thought that all the frenetic activity of summer was just what I needed to use some of this pent up energy. I come from a family whose idea of fun is...big surprise: work. So I've been working with the summer lunch program and…"
Thursday
Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Jane P ...  Thank you for sharing that and I can sure relate.  I printed it out and it's on my fridge door in plain view where others can see it when they come to my home.  That should put a cap on any down comments. …"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol ...  Thanks so much and I am always happy to try help other members on here, but, in turn all of you help me too.  I feel so blessed having been part of everyone's lives on here be it sad or a few good times they may…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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