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Elvira Castellanos commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"No need to thank me Phyllis, I know how devastating this loss was for me & know it's the same for you, for me it's been just over 2 months & it's just as raw as the first day he passed, I am trying really hard for my sons, one…"
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phyllis eldridge commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Elvira....Thank you for your kind words. I have been reading some of the posts on here and I see there are people who do understand. I see myself in so many of them. I don't sleep well, a few hours at a time here and there. I also listen to a…"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Found out that some of the medications I'm taking are causing more problems than they are worth. Doctor agreed to take me off another today but it also turns out I don't have high blood pressure anymore. Now it is low but I can't stop…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol, Thank you! Traveled back home from S. C. we will never drive again way to long for us. Didn't move yet just checking out areas. You have to be sure first, but I'm ready. I'm so glad you had a great day with your family…"
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Bereaved Spouses

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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Greg ...  Thanks for you thoughts and prayers my friend and the same back to you. Marsha"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela ... so nice to see you post my friend. Thanks for the tip on the movie and I've seen the clips on youtube.  I did read the book so happy to hear the movie keeps to the book.  My girlfriend and I are going to see it Friday night…"
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Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, My thoughts and prayers are with you today. God Bless and Take Care. Greg"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi everyone. I may have found part of the answer to why I am forgetting. It turns out the antidepressant I've been on can cause temporary memory problems. It takes 2months to go off it because it messes with your brain seretonin, oh yay! My…"
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha and all others that are interested in the movie "Heaven is for real".   I read the book.  If you read the book,  you'll know the movie - the movie is exactly like the book.  I've seen lots of movies…"
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stacey commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol- That our little ones do I would be able to do this without him. So much joy and for just one day I'd like to be in his brain because some of the things that come out of his mouth OMG! To funny!!! I asked him to help me out the…"
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Theresa Wimann commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear friends. Yesterday they finished and I've moved most of the furniture back into the front room. Monday they will update one outlet and then put in light and rest of outlets. I have a few more things to move in. I'm finding that I…"
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Marie commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Barbara,  You are in my thoughts and prayers. Everything you described as to your feelings is how I am feeling right now.  Well said! Marie"
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Jane P. commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Greg, Life is frustrating enough without having to do it alone. I totally understand.  You will make it, as we all are trying, one baby step at a time. Frustrating, you bet! My fuse has gotten shorter since my husband has passed.   My…"
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Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Theresa, Thanks for help, I will email the guy and see what happens. Thanks for the hugs and puppy licks, tell them thank you for their support. Glad your house projects are getting completed and hopefully the library goes smoothly ( no more…"
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Greg Janik commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Marsha, I'm sure the right dog will come along eventually, I will keep looking. Going to the city today to do some shopping, there is a Petsmart store that has animals for adoption, going to stop in there and check it out. Being nervous…"
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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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