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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Janeo  ...  I am so sorry about the flooding and hope it's all cleaned up by now.  Don't feel bad about making wrong decisions to have something fixed around the house because I've been stung a couple of times, but,…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Carol, thank you so much. I made so many wrong decision s about the house and who I hired which I trusted them and got taken. Don't want to use bad language. I have a hard time trusting lately. Thanks to you at least I know now things to look…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Barbara, Thank you so much for your help. My son and I ripped it up ourselves. A lot of work. We don't have family close and he has to take care if his mother. Richie did everything so I don't know what to do. We checked the carpet and it…"
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Barbara Sullivan commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Janeo -- This past winter, a pipe burst in my garage-converted TV room.  My daughters helped me and we used a Shop-Vac, plus a rug shampooer to suck up as much of the water as possible from the rug.  Then we pulled up the entire rug…"
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janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi to all I had a flood in my basement. I live in Long Island where we got 13" of rain in a 24 hour period. We had to rip up the carpet in the basement apt this we won'tget mold it was soaked. Now I need new padding and carpet. Richie had…"
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Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you all for posting that you liked that poem called "Lovers".  This site is wonderful and as Janeo said, it's a great site."
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Hi Frank ...  It's great to see you post again and you have been greatly missed.  We're all still here (sometimes some of us off and on, but still watching this forum) to pick up those that fall as we had have our journey in the…"
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela ...  That was absolutely beautiful and I don't think better words could explain how most of us feel regarding the loss of our spouses and the memories left behind. Big hugs Marsha"
Wednesday
Frank Andrews commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Diane,    I have not posted much since I just have not progressed much in almost 2 years and am depressed.  I do, however, read posts and extend my deepest condolences to you and your family over losing your much loved father.…"
Wednesday
janeo commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Wilela, I signed up on that site quite awhile now.I get emails all the time. Great site !"
Wednesday
Barbara Sullivan commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Thank you, Wilela!  It was beautiful! Barb"
Tuesday
Wilela Trip commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Your friend Elaine Wilkinson has sent you the following webpage :http://nethugs.com/love/lovers/She/He included the following message:This I ran across in my travels on the internet.Hope you like it.  It means a lot to me and I'm sure it…"
Tuesday
Karen W commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Diane, my sincere condolences on the loss of your dad. Words seem so inadequate. I'm so very sorry. With prayers for you and your family and hugs, Karen."
Tuesday
georgia commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"Dear Diane my deepest sympathy on the passing of your father. May god keep you and your family in his special care. With respect , Georgia."
Tuesday
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Marsha H commented on Steve Cain's group Bereaved Spouses
"I had this music for my Ernie's Celebration of Life ... This is in honor of Diane's father, husband and all our spouses. I'm crying, so should you, it cleanses the spirit and keeps us strong. …"
Aug 15

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Just a quick note to thank you all for supporting each other. When I started this I would have NEVER thought this group would grow this big and have the amount of activity that it does. It's great to see you all supporting and helping each other. With 3 jobs it is hard to spend as much time as I'd like but it's good to know I don't have to spend a lot of time here administering things. Just remember I'm around if you need me. When something gets posted I do get an email and I will respond as soon as I get that. Thank you all for taking care of each other and remembering your loved ones here.

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At 9:44am on May 26, 2013, Jan said…
How do I talk to people on this site? I posted and did a blog and no one responded. Maybe I didn't do it correctly.
At 9:02pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
I just realized I posted
I have read others post and it seems no matter whether the loss of our loved one is recent or years ago What I am feeling is what others have posted
I feel a large piece of my heart died when he did I feel like I have to be another person at work and then go home to our home we shared for 45 years and feel so alone I just crawl in bed and zone out to movies or sleep When I think about how much I miss him and being there when he took his last breath it's like I have to put my feelings away because its too hard to deal with them. I get mad then sad and cry I just want to go to sleep and wake up and he is back home with me. The question I have is I feel bad when other family members call with problems they are having or if they are sick. I feel like I can't handle it or be sympathetic and say the wrong thing to them. I really don't want to talk to others I feel bad I can't listen to there problems Does anyone else feel this way. I have always been the strong one helped others and was able to fix my problems. This grieving I can't fix me. I know everyone says it takes time but this is the worst thing to go thru and I don't feel I will ever be me again. I married Mike when I was 18. Moved from my patents house to be Mikes wife then became a mother and now 45 yrs later alone. I was always a wife and a mother never a me I don't know how to be me. Mike and I were friends too and did everything together I really don't have friends Sorry my post is so long. Mikes birthday is coming up then Xmas. Thanks for listening
At 8:40pm on December 7, 2012, Babs said…
Hi. I am new here how do I post a question My husband of 45 years passed away 10 months ago tonight I don't feel it will ever be better I miss so much. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
At 2:35am on September 13, 2012, Marilyn kroge said…
I am facing the 1st anniversary of the loss of my beloved Jim and I still can't accept that I am alone for the first time since I was 18 years old, almost 50 years with the same man and my only love. I wake in the night to sounds that I realize are coming from my very soul. I find myself calling out to him, begging him to please come back to me, that I can't go on without him and I can't stop the tears that won't stop and I don't want to stop the pain I feel because that would make it real, it would mean that I finally know that I will never feel his arms around me, that I'll never kiss him goodbye when he left each morning. This man I met for the first time and we knew that first meeting that love at first sight really happened and we were together from that moment until I kissed him and felt his last breath, warm and so amazing that I felt his breath as he closed his eyes and so quietly left me forever . I know how maudlin my words sound but I so need to finally tell someone of my pain. I'm not allowed to say any of this to my sons or anyone in my family. Their grief became anger and so this has been my life, alone and terribly hurt that no one wants to hear what I've said here where I feel safe sharing my deepest thoughts. Thank you......."m"
At 9:13pm on September 12, 2012, Margie Thrash said…

I am coming up on my second month without my rock (Scott) it is hard but I do have good friends that check up on me every night if I dont contact them so I am fortunate that way.  Had to already go thru his birthday without him was very hard to do.  Then we always did a 100 mile horse ride week of labor day did it this year by myself with a few friends and was hard but I did it.  Not a day goes by I dont cry.  One of his last text to me was please dont get depressed like I am right now (he had 3 months to live from diagnosis made it 3 1/2).  So I try to think of that text everytime it gets too bad and I go outside or work around the house and listen to alot of music.

At 2:21am on January 10, 2012, Rowe said…

Welcome to all new members. I Lost my first husband 31 yrs ago at the age of 38. Remaried 6 yrs later and lost my Late husband after 10 yrs. He has been gone for 15 years. I am living proof that after the grief, Life will go on.  Not at first, but about 5 yrs later you will be living again.. even though you thought it would never happen. I Recommend that you do not try to avoid the grief.. you have to deal with it because if you dont it will be waiting for you to come back. I am here for you if you need to vent, or just want someone to give you an ear.

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:40am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

At 5:39am on December 15, 2011, dawn m long said…

hi steve only a few more days till christmas .. Im here for ya

 luv dawn

 
 
 

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