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Jaime's Mom (Martha) left a comment for valerie canosa

"Valerie, Its good to hear from you. What sort of things was Sara interested in? What did she want to do when she grew up?"

Jun 1, 2012

valerie canosa left a comment for Jaime's Mom (Martha)

"Martha, just checking up on you , hope all is well.. God bless you my friend! Lets get through this together!! xoxo"

Jun 1, 2012

valerie canosa left a comment for Alicia Rodriguez

"Hi Alicia, I'm right by you but doing good and also missing my SAra too, I can not express how much!! Thank you for checking up on me, I will continue praying for you and everyone else on this site!! XOXO"

May 24, 2012

Alicia Rodriguez left a comment for valerie canosa

"Hi Valerie just want to ask how ur doing? Me just here missing my beloved son Jesse.going on 3 years. Miss him everyday! Hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM!!aliciarodriguez717@gmail.com"

May 23, 2012

valerie canosa left a comment for Jaime's Mom (Martha)

"Thank you for the beatiful and conforting words Martha, I am very sorry you have to experience this pain. I am sure he loved you just as much as you him and he would not want you feeling down, when you think of him, remember the happy moments, the…"

May 23, 2012

Jaime's Mom (Martha) left a comment for valerie canosa

"Valerie, My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and…"

May 23, 2012

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valerie canosa left a comment for Jaime's Mom (Martha)

"Martha I am glad to see that to an extent you are ok and coping with all of this. I am a believer, and have been since I was a child and so was my Sara. I can not blame nobody especially the Lord for my Saras accident. She was my best friend on top…"

May 23, 2012

Jaime's Mom (Martha) left a comment for valerie canosa

"Yes, it always feels special to know of other children that left this world near or around the time Jaime left. Please forgive me, but I dont recall how Sara passed. I read the postings and I dont recall how you lost your Sara. I…"

May 22, 2012

valerie canosa left a comment for Jaime's Mom (Martha)

"God bless you too Martha!! We started this new journey almost together I lost My Sara 1 month and 6 days before your son left you and I know and fully understand what you are feeling... I am so sorry that you or anybody else has to go thru this pain…"

May 22, 2012

Jaime's Mom (Martha) left a comment for valerie canosa

"Valerie, well put. I also lost my son Jaime to leukemia on 2-7-2011. I believe in Gods will and know that things happen for a reason. Take care and God bless."

May 21, 2012

valerie canosa commented on Tami's group Loss of a Child

"My prayers are with every single one of you, may the Lord give us the strength and capacity to continue enduring our lives without our child or loved one.. I have been on my journey for 1 year 4 months and 7 days, I miss my little girl dearly and…"

May 21, 2012

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At 11:35am on June 1, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie,

Its good to hear from you. What sort of things was Sara interested in? What did she want to do when she grew up?

At 4:58pm on May 23, 2012, Alicia Rodriguez said…: Hi Valerie just want to ask how ur doing? Me just here missing my beloved son Jesse.going on 3 years. Miss him everyday! Hugs to you ALICIA JESSE'S MOM!!aliciarodriguez717@gmail.com

At 11:59am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie, My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him. I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:58am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie, My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him. I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:41am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie,

My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie,

My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie,

My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:37am on May 23, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie,

My heart goes out to you. Im so sorry you lost Sara, and its good to know you were so close. My child (well he was 23 when he passed) was a true teenager and he did not like physical affection like hugs and kisses, but i kissed him over and over and I told him i was proud of him and i told him to look for God and talk to God when he was on his last days. I knew he knew there was a possibility he could pass and he told me and his dad (my ex) that he loved us... and that just blew our minds cause we did not expect that from him.

I am like you and I never blamed anyone and I felt relief that he was no longer in pain and suffering, but I feel like i could of done more to connect with him or emphasize God, heaven and asking for forgiveness for his sins and i wish i could of assured him of the beauty of an afterlife with Jesus and to look for his face, but I held on for a recovery to the very end and I lost my oppurtunity. I know he looks down on us and would want me to feel better and 'not make a big deal' because thats how he was.

I hope your beautiful Sara shines upon your everyday life and i wish you peace in your heart with comfort knowing Sara is OK now and doing way better than anyone on earth.

At 11:01am on May 22, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Yes, it always feels special to know of other children that left this world near or around the time Jaime left. Please forgive me, but I dont recall how Sara passed. I read the postings and I dont recall how you lost your Sara. I just know that I have tried to get close to our Lord and reading all these postings that are non believers... I get sad. When I read your post, I was very relieved and happy to know that there are others that feel the way I do. It hurts me everyday to think about how my child suffered in the hospital those last months and I was there for him everyday, but I feel I could of done more to help or console him or brought him closer to God. We are catholic and I prayed for a cure, but it was not meant to be. He was a good child, quiet and brave as brave can be. He never once complained about anything, he just knew he was going to recover and I believed it too, but we were wrong. He knows I love him with all my heart and he knows and sees everything now and I cant wait to earn the honor to join him and others.

Please keep in touch and take care of yourself.

At 11:40am on May 21, 2012, Jaime's Mom (Martha) said…: Valerie, well put. I also lost my son Jaime to leukemia on 2-7-2011. I believe in Gods will and know that things happen for a reason. Take care and God bless.