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How do I cope with the lost of 2 sons within 5 weeks of each other

HI IT'S ME AGAIN I HAVE A VERY SPECIAL POEM STEVE MY OLDEST SON WROTE FOR SHAWN FUNERAL.

BROTHERLY LOVE

WE NEVER REALLY SAID WE LOVED ONE ANOTHER
ARE EVEN SHOWED SLIGHTEST CARE
BUT WHEN IT WAS ME WHO WAS A DYING
I KNEW MY BROTHER WOULD ALWAYS BE THERE
WE BOTH FELT IT BUT NEVER EVEN SAY
THAT WE LOVED EACH OTHER THE BROTHERLY WAY
YOU AWAYS THE STRONG ONE AND I WAS WEAK
BUT KNOW ITS YOUR STRENT I WILL NEED TO SEEK
I DO'NT KNOW HOW TO GET WITH OUT NO BROTHER
I NEED YOUR STRENGTH AND THE LOVE OF OUR MOTHER
I NEED TO FLY,FLY LIKE A DOVE
SO I CAN SEE YOU AGAIN MY BROTERLY LOVE.
TELL GRANDMA WE WILL SOON BE ALRIGHT
FOR WE WILL BETOGTERAGAIN ONE DAY OR ONE NIGHT
I HOPE HEAVEN IS BETTER THAN LIFE IS HERE
BUT FOR JUST ONE MOMENT I WAS TO HOLD NEAR
ONE DAY SOON I WILL SEE YALL IN HEAVEN ABOVE
TO SOMEDAY RECLAIM OUR BROTHERLY LOVE
ONLY GOD KNOWS WHY IAM STILL EARTH BOUND
AND THE REASON FOR THAT I HAVE STILL FOUND.
WHY NOT ME THE SICK AND WEAK ONE
HE TAKES THE STRONG,THE QUESTION I WILL ALWAYS SEEK

BROTHERLY LOVE IS WHAT WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD
SO WHY DID HE TAKE YOU AND LEAVE ALONE AND SAD

I WILL NEVER GET OVER YOU BEING A WAY
BUT I WILL SEE YOU SOON SOMEHOW SOMEWAY
I KNOW YOU WILL WATCH FOR ME IN HEAVEN ABOVE
TILL I CAN SEE YOU AGAIN MY BROTERLY LOVE

I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU MY BABY BROTHERLY LOVE

P.S. I WILL SEE YOU SOON
YOUR BIG BROTHER
STEVE MARTIN

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Comment by judy taylor on May 21, 2011 at 1:51am: HI ALL THERE IS A SITE FOR FREE CALLED FOREVERMISSED.COM YOU CAN WRITE ABOU YOUR CHILD POST PIC'S ALSO ALL THER FRIENDS CAN VIST IT A LEAVE A STORY ABOUT YOUR CHILD

FATHER BLESS ALL OF US PARENTS THAT HAVE LOSS A CHILD FATHER JUST REACH DOWN YOUR LOVING HANDS AND FORGIVING HANDS AND TOUCH US MOTHER SO WE CAN TRY TO UNDERSTAND FATHER I ASK THIS IN YOUR AMEN

Comment by shannon churchill on March 4, 2011 at 1:35pm: I am here for you as well. So sorry for you loss.

Comment by Ronda Johnston on October 10, 2010 at 10:59pm: Hello Judy, My name is Ronda and I just got done reading your blog, Wow I'm so very sorry to hear about your 2 boys, That's Horrendous pain.... My son Sean is in Heaven now too, waiting for us.... Sean was 25 & my only son, my first born, He passed on June 14th 2010 the worst day of my life!!!!! I know your heart broken as I am too....I wanted to Introduce myself to you as a friend, I am here for you if you ever want to talk, Anytime. Hugs to you, Please write me back sometime. Ronda

Comment by Lisa Halsey on June 20, 2010 at 7:54pm: Judy my heart goes out to U losing one son is heart breaking enough but losing 2, they would have to burry me with my 2sons. I lost my son Daniel on Nov 16th 2008. It seems like yesterday he was my world my joy my baby boy. My son was killed due to texting and driving he was away 5miles away from his dorm. He was in college in a differnt state when they called me I couldn't get to my son i felt helpless. His football coach had to id his body because the news hit so fast in IL. They called him a star he was a talented football player he was on scholership the last time I saw my son was on Oct. 26 2008 he was there to celebrate his 21st birthday and his brother Micheals 16th birthday they have the same birthday they were both born on Oct. 22, oh how the boys loved each other not only lost his brother but his best friend and hero. Iam so angry at god its like Y my child he had so much he wanted to do he was on the right track going to college playing football trying to get into the NFL. He was working 2jobs I just thank god that Daniel didn't suffer he died instantly he hit a 9 foot tree stump the car flew up he was ejected on to the high way some object hit him in the back of the head. I always thought god doesn't put anything in front of you that U can't bear thats not true. iam so glad that Daniel has good friends and team mates that still come and see us keep in touch and they are there for Micheal they feel like they need to take care of us because they made that promise to him. please keep in touch so i don't feel like iam not alone I have friends good friends that listen to me and I love them dearly but they haven't lost a child. Thank U for listing to me Lisa Daniels mom. my e mail address is my2sons1022@yahoo.com