If the love of your life has died, Valentine's Day may be more about sorrow than joy, a day filled with tears rather than hugs. It's OK to cry. Just remember that you are not alone.

LegacyConnect has resources that can help. Join a support group or discussion and talk with others who've lost their spouse or partner, girlfriend or boyfriend. Or get advice from experts:

• Moving Forward, Connected Still
• Love and Sticky Date Pudding
• Loving Someone Under a Black Cloud
• I'll Be Seeing You (But I Know You Are Not There)
• Wishing You Could Share Good News
• When Memories Are All We Have
• The Loneliness of Grief
• Bereavement Groups Can Help
• Your Spiritual Toolbox
• Laughter in the Face of Tears
• Tell Me a Story
• Celebrating a Sweet Memory
• Cooking Up Some Comfort
• Creative Ways to Donate in Memory of a Loved One