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At 4:27pm on December 6, 2011, Joan Rydalch said…

Thanks for your comments, My sons name is Aaron and he was 36. His birthday is Dec. 19 an would be 37. I also have 3 other sons and 2 daughters, we all all devestated by his passing on Oct. 3 and are trying to get throught the month. I also have 18 grandkids  3 of them are in heaven . 2 of them are Aarons childrens so we have some comfort in knowing he is with them. I'm so grateful I have this site to come to to read comments knowing I'm not alone in this journey!

At 10:34am on December 3, 2011, Forever Deena's Mom said…

sorry for your loss Alicia. It was actually my daughter her pic is my main pic. Thank you so much for the kind words.

At 8:25am on December 1, 2011, Tami said…
Hi Alicia, I love your dreams about Jesse, I haven't had one for Joey yet, I think I am still blocking him, a very special friend I met here that doesn't know Joey had a visit from him and her son, Joey talked to her about something very specific that nobody could ever possibly know and he wanted her to ask me to stop blocking him! I'm just not in the right frame of mind yet I think. But it was true conformation for me that he is in heaven and he is ok, I will never stop missing him, no matter if he is ok and happy, but it does ease my heart a little to know for sure he will be there when It is my time.
Love you my dear friend.
At 1:29pm on November 25, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia, thanks for asking. I read your posts and can see you too miss Jesse as bad as we all do our loved ones.

 it was ok. I posted on the main page I think, that I did dinner at my older sons with his 1 of 3 step kids and his daughter, cecelia. my hubby had work all day. he did get off earlier than planned but too late to show up. His mom also came with us. but that morning, when I woke up alone and the house was quiet, I cried. Then my hubby called from work and he said he had a few teary  moments too. It was a little better this time around, but its the 4th for us. I would rather just stay home and do nothing. I cant yet get over it or celebrate like we used to. I am a big humbug for sure. But I was before too, lol

I hope now that this one is over we make it thru the next one and the next one. I know it is what we make of it, but I for one, only do what needs to be done for the little ones. I do hope some of the adults understand but only we here know this feeling.

hugs to you and yours

At 1:29pm on November 25, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia, thanks for asking. I read your posts and can see you too miss Jesse as bad as we all do our loved ones.

 it was ok. I posted on the main page I think, that I did dinner at my older sons with his 1 of 3 step kids and his daughter, cecelia. my hubby had work all day. he did get off earlier than planned but too late to show up. His mom also came with us. but that morning, when I woke up alone and the house was quiet, I cried. Then my hubby called from work and he said he had a few teary  moments too. It was a little better this time around, but its the 4th for us. I would rather just stay home and do nothing. I cant yet get over it or celebrate like we used to. I am a big humbug for sure. But I was before too, lol

I hope now that this one is over we make it thru the next one and the next one. I know it is what we make of it, but I for one, only do what needs to be done for the little ones. I do hope some of the adults understand but only we here know this feeling.

hugs to you and yours

At 9:55pm on November 24, 2011, Martin Connors said…

Its a granite from upstate New York, according to the memorial company it is formed from the glacier recession.  I don't know.  I was just relived the memorial is finished.

At 7:26pm on November 24, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Miss you my beloved jesse to day is Thanksgiving but it just don't feel like it without you.i went to you're bro Roy house. We all miss you sooo much son. It well never be the same without you.Baby Rogelio jesse is getting bigger n so is Acelyn. Pepe misses u.we all do.Happy Thanksgiving in Heaven Son.Love you.Mom
At 12:24pm on November 21, 2011, victoria, Justin's Mom said…

Hello Alicia,  we lost our precious sons on the same day.  I just returned from a three week trip.  It didn't help.  I'm still lost without my sweet Justin

in my life.  I don't expect it to ever stop hurting--it probably isn't meant to stop.  Its just something we are forced to live with.   John Walsh , who lost his little son to murder, was quoted as saying that describing his grief was like trying to describe a color.  There are no words that explain it.  Heartbroken, crushed, devastated, etc. etc. barely scratch the surface of the feelings we are enduring day after day.  Only we know how it feels--people who have never lost a child cannot begin to comprehend our feelings and emotions.  I am with you in your struggles over the holidays ahead.  I know I would like to fast forward and miss the holidays entirely as they are nothing but cruel reminders that Justin isn't here to enjoy them with us.  Justin's Mother ---Victoria

 

 

At 12:31am on November 20, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…

Hi Alicia it was so nice to hear from you,yes holidays once again and of course here we are without our babies.I have been attending as much support group that I can find to attend and I can not believe how many of us have lost so many of our kids at such a young age.Its been allitlle over 2 years but sure feel like yesterday i really dont think we will ever get over it nor do i ever wanna forget the wonderful moments that my son gave me and i am sure that we all as parents feel that way.I hope that you and your family get through the holidays and i will be thinking of you along with everyone on connect legacy.Lots of hugs and prayers to you my friend.

At 6:43pm on October 30, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia, we too have been having a hard time dealing with losing our daughter. She was 21, but we all know age doesnt matter. My hubby has been finally catching up to the points where I have been in the last 3 yrs. I am so sorry you too have to deal with all of this grief. You are right, they will be forever the age they were when they were Chosen!  I just hope to get past all the holidays as best can be without ruffling to many feathers, cause I dont seem to care about them anymore. I have one gdaughter who will be 4 jan 31, and one gson due early jan. These are my two sons from my first marriage, so its harder for my husband, Amy was his only child.

I hope things are not too bad, but know that my heart goes out to you too.

Keep in touch. I havent posted much lately. Been keeping busy moving my desk and shelves that I keep all the momentos on just going over and over things in my head. some days are worse than others.

hugs to you and yours

At 6:43pm on October 30, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia, we too have been having a hard time dealing with losing our daughter. She was 21, but we all know age doesnt matter. My hubby has been finally catching up to the points where I have been in the last 3 yrs. I am so sorry you too have to deal with all of this grief. You are right, they will be forever the age they were when they were Chosen!  I just hope to get past all the holidays as best can be without ruffling to many feathers, cause I dont seem to care about them anymore. I have one gdaughter who will be 4 jan 31, and one gson due early jan. These are my two sons from my first marriage, so its harder for my husband, Amy was his only child.

I hope things are not too bad, but know that my heart goes out to you too.

Keep in touch. I havent posted much lately. Been keeping busy moving my desk and shelves that I keep all the momentos on just going over and over things in my head. some days are worse than others.

hugs to you and yours

At 6:43pm on October 30, 2011, JOYCE MASHER, 4 Amy 5158791808 said…

Hi Alecia, we too have been having a hard time dealing with losing our daughter. She was 21, but we all know age doesnt matter. My hubby has been finally catching up to the points where I have been in the last 3 yrs. I am so sorry you too have to deal with all of this grief. You are right, they will be forever the age they were when they were Chosen!  I just hope to get past all the holidays as best can be without ruffling to many feathers, cause I dont seem to care about them anymore. I have one gdaughter who will be 4 jan 31, and one gson due early jan. These are my two sons from my first marriage, so its harder for my husband, Amy was his only child.

I hope things are not too bad, but know that my heart goes out to you too.

Keep in touch. I havent posted much lately. Been keeping busy moving my desk and shelves that I keep all the momentos on just going over and over things in my head. some days are worse than others.

hugs to you and yours

At 11:18am on October 29, 2011, valerie moore said…

hi alicia,

its good to have other children, however, it still doesnt take the brutal pain away from losing our boys. dusty was my only child. i just take one day at a time, i feel i have nothing to look forward to anymore..he was my entire world. he had so much to offer, had so much potential, he had wonderful qualities however, the drugs engulfed his mind and he lost his life to drugs... what a waste of a beautiful life.  dusty would now be 27 and next june will be 28.  i always talk as if he was still here and not gone, because he is..alive in my heart and soul.  i always look forward to hearing from you and pray that you are doing as well as can be expected.  much love, valerie

At 10:43pm on October 28, 2011, Alicia Rodriguez said…
Hi to every body making it one day at time with out our beloved Angeles can anýone tell me how are we to go on so unhappy?
At 6:36pm on October 27, 2011, valerie moore said…
hi alicia, thanks soo much for writing to me.  i have been so down, feeling so very alone and sad.  i too think of my dusty every minute of every hour of every day. he was the love of my life. i try not to be mad at God because Dusty made the bad decision of taking too many drugs, that is what he passed from. he had a bad drug problem and i prayed for years that God would heal him.  I supposed that God thought dusty need to finally be in  a peaceful place instead of his horrible chaotic life.  words cannot explain how i miss his handsome face and sweet hugs.  do you think we will ever have joy in our life...?? i just wonder.....  hope your at least ok....love,  valerie
At 9:05pm on September 28, 2011, victoria, Justin's Mom said…

I havent been on the site for a long time.  Just saw your message a week ago.  Our sons died on the same day so we are probably in similar shape now.  I don't need to explain how I feel because you are probably feeling the same.  It helps that I have contact with his children but they do not replace him in my heart or in my life.  Looking out for them and doing things for them and spending time with them is at least something I can do for Justin and that gives me a purpose in life and at least some reason to stay on this earth.   I am sorry for your loss of Jesse.  I know his family misses him the same way we miss Justin.  Justin was born April 28, 1981 and will be forever 28.    Victoria, Justin's Mother

 

At 1:47am on September 21, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…
Hi Alicia you know my oldest also died from his liver giving out on him. He drank beer on weekend but was so depressed from not working and he also was taking tylenol pms to sleep and also other pulls i really didnt know about until he had passed.Please never be sorry for ranting i am always here for you and know that you will do the same for me.I know what you are going through especially losing our oldest please i am here for you and would love to keep in touch with you . Your friend
At 10:45pm on September 16, 2011, Amelia R Chavez said…
  1. Hi Alicia so sorry that i have no responed to you but we moved and the internet here is not good at all it takes forever!!anyway thank you for writing and i was named after my grandmother. I truly understand your feelings i do the exact same things no one understands but us that have been through this nightmare i hope to keep in touch with all of you beacause this is better then seeing a shrink they dont know unless they walk our shoes..lots of hugs and prayers to you and family
At 10:57am on September 12, 2011, Janet - Todd's Mom said…

Hi Alicia,

It's good to hear from you.  I feel exactly the same as you, missing my Todd more each day.  He brought so much joy to my life, and I feel as though I took him for granted.  I knew he was a wonderful person and an even better son, but I didn't realize the unique bond we had until he was gone.  I'm struggling to appreciate the time we did have with him, and not dwell on the fact that he is not with us now, but it's really really difficult every day.

As for lawyers, we couldn't get anywhere with them.  We started with a top lawyer from our area, whose sister worked with Todd and liked him very much.  After studying his case for four months, they said it couldn't be proved that the despicable doctor my son went to for medical treatment of his pneumonia symptoms and who ignored him, actually caused his death!  So we went to four more top attorneys in Boston and they all said the same thing.  What is the world coming to if a doctor has the right to ignore symptoms and say, "you're not that sick" and the person dies 9 days later and it's okay with the Board of Medicine?  I'll never understand.

Thinking of you and understanding what you are going through,

Hugs,

Janet

At 9:50am on August 28, 2011, valerie moore said…
dear alicia,  thanks for thinking of me today. i still have a hard time believing that dusty is really gone.  my heart is broken, never to be whole again.  love you, valerie

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