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At 11:27pm on November 17th, 2009, PAM BRYAN said…: i richards speacial mom, some how were going to make it, thats what our boys would want,they dont want us too be so crazy all the time,even though i feel like i am sometimes. we have to be strong and we can cry if we want too,not that we can stop it when it comes it comes and that might get easier i dont no. all i know is im trying so hard it hurts so bad and i know it does for you, but what can we do,is just wait to jesus calls us home. just rember im here for you we have to stick together other people dont understand unless they are going through it,and i wouldnt wish it on anyone. take care and be as strong as we can be, and know i no how hard it is. take care. justins mom pam

At 8:27am on October 29th, 2009, Lisa said…: The pain never goes away...however..today I have found the answer to why.
Why this keeps happening in our world today.
Please read my story and pass it along. This is Breaking News
www.Drugawareness.org/recentcases/suspicious-suicide-of-sister
LET ME KNOW IF YOUR STORY IS SIMILAR. OUTRAGED

At 5:24pm on October 15th, 2009, PAM BRYAN said…: DEAR RICHARDS MOM I GUESS SOME WAY WERE ALL GOING TO HAVE GET THROUGH THE HOLIDAYS,OH HOW SAD BUT I SEEN A ORNAMENT THAT SAID WELL I KNOW YALL WILL MISS ME BUT I'M SPENDING CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS THIS YEAR,THHT IS TRUE BUT OH HOW WE WANT THEM WITH US THIS YEAR,THE LAUGHTER WANT BE HERE THE SMILE THE HUGS THE JOKES OH HOW WE MISS THEM,IT WILL ALWAYS BE,JUST THE MEMORIES. LOVE AND TAKE CARE JUSTINS MOM FOREVER

At 1:22pm on September 15th, 2009, Cindy Sadler said…: I want you to know that I really feel for you. My Son was just killed and in My opinion his own Dad and his Dads Girlfriend had a hand in it. Read My post dated 9-15-09. Please try and hang in there. I know it seems impossible because I am having an Extremly hard time. Cindy

At 7:21pm on August 29th, 2009, shirley zurschmeide said…: Scott and his girlfriend was together for 4 years and I'd say they were happy together. He managed all the bills and helped with the housework, kept the yard looking nice. During the funeral his girlfriend and I was there for each other, I thought we would remain seeing each other but I went to a few physics and she didn't like that. And she dosen't like being told what to do and I thought I was trying to help her but anyway she has moved on so that's all of that. I have two other sons that I'm close to but nobody can take the place of Scott. He was a special person, I talked to him all the time when I'm alone. My youngest son had a son and they name him Alexander Scott which I was very pleased with. So I have two grandsons 10 years old and Alex is 5 months, I also have a granddaughter Candence but I never get to her, the mother is one of those people you can't understand. Today has been a okay day for me, I'm not drinking today Oh maybe a glass of wine or two. Scott is buried in Louisville Menorial Gardens. His grave is by a tree and I have hung wind chines in the tree, on his birthdays we hang birthday decorations on the tree and take ballons and I also take him a birthday card. It's so hard I know but what do you do just wait your turn I guess.

Shirley

At 10:55am on August 29th, 2009, PAM BRYAN said…: I WAS ALSO ACUSED OF MY SON JUSTIN BEING MY FAVORITE, AND HE ALWAYS SAID IT TO HE JUST NEEDED ME MORE. JUST REMEMER WE WERE THERE FOR THEM. AND HOW OUR HEARTS HURT ITE NOT SUPPOSE TO HAPPEN THIS WAy. EVERY WERE YOU GO THERE IS A MEMORIE. I JUST MISS THAT LAUGH THAT SMILE AND I LOVE YOU MORE MOM,AND I WOULD SAY IT BACK WE JUST HAD A SPEACIAL BOND. I MISS HIM SO I HOPE ONE DAY I CAN MOVE FORWARD MORE HE PASSED OCTOBER 3rd 08 A DAY YOU NEVER FORGET JUST LIKE THE DAY THEY WERE BORN. WE HAVE SOME GREAT MEMORIES WE HAVE TO HANG ON TO. SOMEONE SENT THIS TO ME WHEN MY SON PASSED HE WAS 30 YEARS OLD AND I HAD HIM THAT LONG BUT NOT LONG ENOUGH. HERE IS WHAT SOMEONE SENT ME I HOPE IT HELPS YOU A LITTLE. WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME AND I'M NOT THERE TO SEE IF THE SUN SHOULD RISEAND FIND YOUR EYES ALL FILLED WITH TEARS FOR ME. I WISH SO MUCH YOU WOULDN'T CRY THE WAY YOU WILL TODAY WHILE THINKING OF THE MANY THINGS WE DIDN'T GET TO SAY; I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME AS MUCH AS I LOVE YOU'AND EACH TIME YOU THINK OF ME I KNOW YOU'LL ME TOO; BUT WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND, AN ANGEL CAME AND CALLED MY NAME AND TOOK ME BY THE HAND; SO WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME DON'T THINK WE'RE FAR APART FOR EVERY TIME YOU THINK OF ME I'M RIGHT HERE IN YOUR HEART. I HOPE THIS HELPS A LITTLE. I WENT AND GOT ME A CHARM FROM JAMES AVERY THAT SAYS YOU ALWYS IN MY HEART I PUT ON A CHAIN AND I JUST RUB IT WHEN I'M HAVING A BAD DAY. TRY AND BE STRONG AS HARD AS IT IS. THINKING OF YOU AND YOUR FAMILY PAM JUSTINS MOM

At 5:21am on August 29th, 2009, shirley zurschmeide said…: Your story sounds so much like mine. My son was 37 when he die, we were close also. He was always there for me and we hugged and kiss good by and hello. Scott was or is my favorite son, I have two other sons 35 abd 27. But Scott was always there for me all I had to do was ask and he was there. And the same for him but never like to ask for anything because his brother was always the needy one so there for Scott never wanted to bother me. Scott didn't leave any children behind but he loved kids but never wanted any, he'd alway say I'm doing lucky to take care of myself. I too would kid Scott about his gray in his beard, he shaved his head because he was bald. I had Scott when I was 17 so we kinda grew up together. I know what you are going thru and it's not easy. We will cry until the day we die and then we will be with our sons, this will be a happy day. But we have to wait our turn. Scott has left his girlfriend his insurance and 401K which was alot of money. I let her have his truck and she still lives in the house they bought together. After nine months she met somebody else she said we must go on, get pass it. She never calls me. Sometimes I'll ride by his house just to look at it. He took such great care of his yard and his home. I know what you are feeling and words just don't help I know, nothing will. There is nothing I can say except I know what you are feeling and how sad you can be. And the crying spells we have, that lonely feeling that don't go away. Just live each day the best you can like I do.

Shirley

At 7:24pm on August 26th, 2009, richard mom said…: LAST SAT.NIGHT I WONDERED IF YOU KNEW HOW MUCH YOU ARE LOVED.AND THE NEXT MORNING I GOT MY ANSWER I WAS HANDED A 20.00 DOLLAR BILL AT THE TOP WAS YOUR NAME AND ON BOTH SIDES WAS HEARTS.I MISS YOU EVERY DAY YOU MADE THIS WORLD BETTER FOR ME.I KNOW YOU ARE OK.KNOW I WAIT FOR THE DAY I'LL SEE YOU AGAIN.

At 12:34am on June 9th, 2009, Grieving Mom said…: Dear Lynn thank you so very much for your kind words on my page. I would like to add you as a friend yet I do not know how. If you do, would you please add me? I dan so relate to wanting to talk then being blown off. Gosh I miss my child. Again, ty for your kind words.

At 3:08pm on May 26th, 2009, Sandy Lee said…: I was so sad to hear about Richard today. Wow. When you said you didn't know how to say this I just thought you were gonna tell me something simple ,Not this. I am praying for you , and your family,It's not easy to loose a child,I lost a grandchild and a husband,but not this. I know you have strenghth ,and just hang n there girl. It's hard ,but atleast he is not suffering no more with head aches, etc. I pray he is in heaven. I miss you girl alot. I will pass this on to our friends that I am friends with thru myspace. Love ya girl. I know it will never be the same,and I am so sorry. Love sandy .

At 12:07am on May 25th, 2009, Pauline said…: Hi Lyn I am always on line it gets me by!! I look forward to keeping in touch with you..I am sorry about your son...nothing will ever fill our emptiness and nothing will ever be the same again .. please try and sleep ..unfortunately in this cruel world day after day we wake up and have to try and face the world ..so in your heart know that you are not alone..with this site you are never alone ...god bless

At 12:00am on May 25th, 2009, Pauline said…: Dear Lyn

Thank you for your words - I find solace being on this site - it lets me air out my feelings no matter what and it helps me get through the days knowing that I am not suffering as much as some of the others that I have befriended on this site..it might sound cold but like some say ... maybe most of my grieving was done over the years while nursing my sick husband and yes I guess it is true every trip to the hospital always was taken as the last however, his last trip wasnt like that and so as sick as he was there was still no doubt he was coming home so it was one big shock when he passed...it hurts I have our 11th weeding anniversary next saturday and that will be hard just like it was for our birthdays but I have to carry on...

At 5:24pm on May 23rd, 2009, richard mom said…

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